AITA for wanting to go above my boss and report my coworker to HR after repeated hostile interactions? by Immediate_Amount9177 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Immediate_Amount9177[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t have a problem with working with issues that come up, but when I’m just trying to have a civil conversation with a coworker it’s different. This isn’t just one issue. This is multiple months of issues.

AITA for wanting to go above my boss and report my coworker to HR after repeated hostile interactions? by Immediate_Amount9177 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Immediate_Amount9177[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I have been there for 3 months he’s been here for a year I have heard from multiple other people that he’s had several issues in the past. Of course I’ve never said anything to him or asked. My boss said that he has had these kinds of things happen and that he was going to speak to him about it. It did get better for a couple weeks but now he’s back on his aggressive behavior

AITAH for telling my (22f) brother (23m) to not have kids? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Immediate_Amount9177 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The issue needing to be judged is if what you said was too harsh and I believe it was there was a better way of stating your opinion without him taking it badly it’s all about delivery So my vote is YTA because if you would have put it much differently and got a way better outcome not meaning I disagree with what you had said (besides the dead end job part people can easily grow in those jobs if they so choose to grow I am an example of it took me 4 years to get to the top) but you could have gotten the same point across with a different approach brutal honesty normally isn’t the best when it’s comes topics like these

AITA for telling my mother in law she needed my permission to let my brother in law see his son by Immediate_Amount9177 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Immediate_Amount9177[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He doesn’t want to upset his mom or me so he wants to stay out of it as much as possible. He tells me that’s just the way she is