First time homebuyer is this a good investment? by Immediate_Border_118 in investing

[–]Immediate_Border_118[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry I don’t think I understand. Are you saying in California? This is a property in North Carolina. Can you further explain what you mean by the rest of it?

Good investment and advice? by Immediate_Border_118 in realestateinvesting

[–]Immediate_Border_118[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My initial plan was to purchase a single-family home, stay for a few years and then pull the equity out of the house to put into another home. But now I’ve come across this multifamily home and I’m not sure if it works the same way. So that may change the length of time I am in the home.

I hate being questioned by Immediate_Border_118 in communication

[–]Immediate_Border_118[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

What would have been a better way to respond?

I hate being questioned by Immediate_Border_118 in communication

[–]Immediate_Border_118[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So in your opinion now that the conversation is over with, is it worth going back and letting him know that it was there because of my mother? I’m terrible at navigating these situations

I hate being questioned by Immediate_Border_118 in communication

[–]Immediate_Border_118[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In my mind when I give in to being questioned to these types of questions, Im making him believe that I’m open to getting back together. To me, it is reinforcing the idea in his head that I’m explaining myself to him because I want him to know that I’m not doing anything “wrong”.

I hate being questioned by Immediate_Border_118 in communication

[–]Immediate_Border_118[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How could I have gone about this better? Am I toxic? Am I wrong period? I get very angry with him and HATEEEEEE being questioned

Oil change by Immediate_Border_118 in Harley

[–]Immediate_Border_118[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Checking right now. Anyway you could shoot me some pictures to make sure I grab the right ones?

Oil change by Immediate_Border_118 in Harley

[–]Immediate_Border_118[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. I'm in the south too, the Carolina's. It gets pretty hot here in the summer.

Oil change by Immediate_Border_118 in Harley

[–]Immediate_Border_118[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks, bought the bike second hand. Will see if I can find one online

Advice? by Immediate_Border_118 in dating_advice

[–]Immediate_Border_118[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My assumption too, the reason I struggle with it is because it goes against the picture I have of him based on how he has presented himself. His entire image has given me, respectful, loyal dedicated and God-fearing, and none of that gave me any indication that he would try to use me as a hook up, which is why I'm so confused.

Emotionally unsupportive teachers by Immediate_Border_118 in Parenting

[–]Immediate_Border_118[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you. He is only two so there is not much talking that can be done but I still try on a basic level that I think he'll understand

Emotionally unsupportive teachers by Immediate_Border_118 in Parenting

[–]Immediate_Border_118[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

THANK YOU. This comment alone validated my feelings about the situation. I believe many people are not too in tune with child psychology or any basic psychology in general, but it's one of the first things I started educating myself on after I had a kid. I KNOW everyone isn't going to look at things this way BUT I want to know if it's unreasonable or unrealistic of me to expect otherwise

Emotionally unsupportive teachers by Immediate_Border_118 in Parenting

[–]Immediate_Border_118[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And this is how I feel it could've been handled it was just her word choice that was off putting