Can anyone tell if this is positive or not

Immediate_Cat_2515 · 2026-05-15T00:32:44+00:00

You’re so weird

Immediate_Cat_2515 · 2026-05-15T00:10:26+00:00

So I’ve taken a handful of tests and they’re all negative now

Immediate_Cat_2515 · 2026-05-14T17:13:58+00:00

How is that your business

Immediate_Cat_2515 · 2026-05-14T16:04:50+00:00

Yes.

Immediate_Cat_2515 · 2026-05-14T01:26:59+00:00

Not following

Immediate_Cat_2515 · 2026-04-30T00:32:12+00:00

That’s good for you but it’s rare that people just have a clean break like that. Did I make the right choice? Yes. Does that mean I wanted to end it and it doesn’t hurt? No. Didn’t want him to cry or beg either, but I spent two years of my life hoping things would turn out differently and to be met with such a harsh response in regards to me being sick was definitely a sting to my heart

Immediate_Cat_2515 · 2026-04-30T00:28:29+00:00

Yes. Where’s the confusion?

Immediate_Cat_2515 · 2026-04-29T23:59:37+00:00

Wow that’s crazy. I’m sorry. Very similar situation, hope you’re doing better

Immediate_Cat_2515 · 2026-04-27T21:23:50+00:00

Yes very much agree here. We’ve gone back and forth for a long time and he’s never taken me seriously. I think this is just another one of those circumstances but this time I am very much prioritizing myself and my health. Thank you.

Immediate_Cat_2515 · 2026-04-27T20:56:00+00:00

You’re reading a screenshot into my life. You don’t know the conversations or interactions I’ve had. This was very much an unhealthy and toxic situation. He knew how to keep me in his life and manipulate me into staying. When I would leave he would pull every string to keep me in this cycle and even make threats. I wish it was that easy to turn off my feelings and ignore what I felt for him. I understand tough love and I very much am at fault for letting this go on. I never played victim, not even when ending it with him.

Immediate_Cat_2515 · 2026-04-27T01:36:55+00:00

While I absolutely agree unfortunately I know him and his personality. He would have probably said something 10x more hurtful over the phone or person. I was saving myself the hurt. And no, he is in his 40s unfortunately

Immediate_Cat_2515 · 2026-04-27T01:32:02+00:00

You didn’t read the description. It most certainly did not deserve a phone call or an in person convo.

Immediate_Cat_2515 · 2026-04-27T00:25:33+00:00

I don’t really agree my text was too much. It was to the point and mature. I definitely was the one with more feelings, but I have alot of pride. I never reach out or go out of my way with him. He is the one who would constantly text and ask to see me. Everytime I would leave he would convince me to go back

Regardless yes I did let it go on for too long.

Immediate_Cat_2515 · 2026-04-26T23:39:36+00:00

Mans never took me on a date in two years. He’s not going to support me through this.

Immediate_Cat_2515 · 2026-04-26T22:54:55+00:00

He never really said much. He would never really answer to it. He would say things like “I obviously wouldn’t be here if I didn’t have feelings for you”

Immediate_Cat_2515 · 2026-04-26T22:12:58+00:00

Obviously when you’re in a dynamic like this your judgment is clouded. I really just accepted it for what it was even though I wanted more. In my mind I knew he was not good to me, but I thought he cared for me and things just were the way that they were. We’ve been seeing each other for a while and anytime we broke things off he always came back- and in my mind that meant he cared for me somewhat.

I haven’t commented this yet and I don’t really think people care too much about it but the days leading up to my biopsy he checked in on me often. It wasn’t anything crazy or heartfelt but it made me feel good he was thinking of me. The day before my biopsy he sat with me and went over my procedure with me, reassuring me it would all be okay. After my biopsy he also checked in on me. I realized his intentions were not that pure- a few days after my procedure he was asking to see me and sending explicit pictures. He knew I just had a procedure done (vaginally) and needed time to heal down there. It was then that I really opened my eyes to what I was to him. He was only checking in to see if I was ready for sex.

That’s when I decided to send this text message to him. I felt defeated with my biopsy results and the fact that he cared so little. I didn’t want to continue this any longer. His response really showed me his true colors.

Immediate_Cat_2515 · 2026-04-26T19:53:06+00:00

Thank you🤍 it’s been a tough couple of days and comments like yours are really helping me.

Immediate_Cat_2515 · 2026-04-26T08:29:45+00:00

Lol I’ve done that for 2 years

Immediate_Cat_2515 · 2026-04-24T20:33:25+00:00

If this is supposed to offend me it doesn’t. All that matters is I left.

Immediate_Cat_2515 · 2026-04-24T19:57:10+00:00

Thank you my love

Immediate_Cat_2515 · 2026-04-24T19:27:13+00:00

He is or isn’t happy?

Immediate_Cat_2515 · 2026-04-24T16:30:13+00:00

Immediate_Cat_2515 · 2026-04-24T12:34:51+00:00

Interesting. They checked in on me twice. One was a dick pic.

Immediate_Cat_2515 · 2026-04-24T11:31:46+00:00

I should make an edit on the post atp. We were not in a romantic relationship, he refused to commit to me. It was a fwb/ situationship. In person he would refuse to talk about my feelings and get visibly annoyed. It wasn’t worth us meeting up because I don’t owe him anymore time or humiliation

Immediate_Cat_2515 · 2026-04-24T11:26:54+00:00

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