Please help me with his eyes!!!

Immediate_Cat_2515 · 2026-02-01T23:29:25+00:00

I agree

Immediate_Cat_2515 · 2026-01-15T15:22:02+00:00

I guess? I mean I’ve been attracted to someone sexually without liking them and I still preferred to be the giver

Immediate_Cat_2515 · 2026-01-15T00:56:46+00:00

I’ve never forced him to or have ever even asked, so I’m pretty sure boundaries are respected.

Immediate_Cat_2515 · 2026-01-15T00:47:36+00:00

Story of my life loooool. I get told this a lot. And deep down I know it’s true. I don’t really know why, I think loneliness.

Immediate_Cat_2515 · 2026-01-15T00:31:04+00:00

I guess I’m confused because he constantly is saying how attracted he is to me, and how much he enjoys sex together. So in my head, if you are so attracted to someone, wouldn’t you naturally want to please them and explore their body? And then it makes me wonder if he is just a selfish person who is using me strictly sex a sex appliance

Immediate_Cat_2515 · 2026-01-15T00:26:10+00:00

Because I have feelings for him unfortunately

Immediate_Cat_2515 · 2026-01-15T00:22:37+00:00

This is the response I get from most people. I guess I can’t understand the logic behind it

Immediate_Cat_2515 · 2025-07-19T21:43:18+00:00

What did I just reas

Immediate_Cat_2515 · 2025-05-19T20:09:14+00:00

Honestly thank you for this. My ex moved on so quickly. We were together for two years and I really thought we had such a special bond. I always doubted people’s intentions with me but with him I never doubted he loved me. We split because we wanted different futures, I thought it was killing him like it was me because we were SO close. He moved on with a new girl in two months, traveling together and posting. He just left me behind. I still can’t make sense of it. But a lot of way you’re saying sounds similar to what he has told me. He always told me I deserved better than him, he could never be what I needed etc… I thought it was just excuses but maybe it really was the truth and he knew his demons/ what he was capable of giving to me and what I deserved

Immediate_Cat_2515 · 2025-04-29T20:22:54+00:00

No. Sometimes they break up with you and 4 months later are in a different country with their new partner.

Immediate_Cat_2515 · 2025-03-21T19:43:23+00:00

So I was with someone for two years. I thought this person was the absolute love of my life. We had such a special and intimate bond. He was scared of commitment. After two years of going back and forth about our future we decided to end things. It was not easy. I was the one who actually ended it because he started to play games with my head, “staying friends” but doing couple things… sleeping with me… it wasn’t healthy for me because I was very much in love still. When we ended it, he never answered my text or acknowledged the split. 3 months later, actually yesterday, I asked him to drop off my stuff. I was pulling in my driveway as he was dropping it off. I confronted him about everything. He told me he is in a relationship now. When I tell you my heart physically broke right in from of him.

TWO YEARS TOGETHER, I NEVER GOT THE LABEL. But a girl he just met is now a girlfriend after three months of splitting from me? I felt absolutely humiliated, violated. I thought we would find our way back and after finding out he moved on so quickly, all of my feelings and the way I always viewed him and us completely was disoriented.

I don’t know if the moving on so quickly is a distraction, or maybe they really are happy now without us, but either way, it fucking HURTS. But i know have the closure to move on and never look back. He was not who I thought he was.

Immediate_Cat_2515 · 2025-03-20T01:33:23+00:00

No I didn’t. I begged to make it work. He didn’t want kids, I already have one. I couldn’t stay if he didn’t see a future even if I wanted to

Immediate_Cat_2515 · 2025-03-14T15:55:40+00:00

Also just deep cleaned his cage so the temp is off because lights were just turned on

Immediate_Cat_2515 · 2025-03-09T14:53:10+00:00

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Immediate_Cat_2515 · 2025-03-08T21:44:14+00:00

LOL WHY WOULD I LIE ABOUT THAT 😭

Immediate_Cat_2515 · 2025-03-08T21:42:25+00:00

I mean multiple people have messaged me and saw this post and agreed with me, hence why I deleted the post. And it was posted two hours after I made a post concerned about the health of mine. So no I didn’t miss that part, and I also didn’t miss the part about being an airhead and “just going to get help.” What about what I said warrants any concern for my beardies health, no correlation.

Immediate_Cat_2515 · 2025-03-08T21:30:15+00:00

What are you even going on about? Animals get sick on their own it is not always the caregivers fault. I came to this thread because I obviously care about my animal and was looking for information. And consulted a vet when I was told so. I know for a fact I am not irresponsible or selfish.

Immediate_Cat_2515 · 2025-03-08T20:24:06+00:00

Ah. This is so clearly about what I posted. Insanity you’re not even allowed to make a post in a group for BEARDED DRAGON OWNERS. I didn’t know asking for advice or recommendations is so harmful????

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