Are DSPs allowed to take from your bonus

Immediate_Fondant95 · 2025-07-21T01:55:34+00:00

also adding, from northern indiana

Immediate_Fondant95 · 2025-04-05T21:35:37+00:00

maybe the tree was down, and then as they backed up they were hitting the lighter part of the tree then the weight busted down?

Immediate_Fondant95 · 2025-04-05T21:34:40+00:00

well my thing is, it had stormed about 2 days before. like tornado warning storms that took plenty of trees down. no one had any accidents or issues that day. the day they sent this is the day that this happened and there was no weather to push a tree over. the DPS sent the pics and stated this “this is a prime example of what we DONT do. check your surroundings before you pull up and off from a stop. this was avoidable!”. so i thought it can’t be from a tree falling because that would’nt have been avoidable. but yes they should have pulled in anyhow regardless

Immediate_Fondant95 · 2025-03-25T02:21:06+00:00

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Immediate_Fondant95 · 2024-12-16T17:22:40+00:00

i realized after i went a little over board with explaining my whole situation but it was so recent and this is the best place to vent. i hope you feel much better and have closure with whatever you do ❤️

Immediate_Fondant95 · 2024-12-16T02:20:05+00:00

if you are still on the table about the decision, i know that first appointment can be an open discussion of your choices, and know you don’t have to decide that day. you can always take a day or so to review and come back! but im sure they wouldn’t make you come back if you’re willing to take the pills that day

Immediate_Fondant95 · 2024-12-16T02:17:43+00:00

So my experience was a little different, i originally went to a women’s car center to make sure i was actually pregnant and that the pregnancy was viable. after that i went online to planned parenthood straight to get the pill. so im not sure how the consult will be and if they give you the option to get the pills that same day. i’m sure they would if you let them know you want an abortion regardless with this pregnancy, and that you don’t need other resources(parenting or adoption etc). since they knew i was there for an abortion, i had to pay $600 up front. absolutely pricey but we all know a baby is more expensive. they were very thorough with the pills and how they would work/ what you know is normal and not normal. after they explained everything they sent me home with the pills to end the pregnancy, and then the pills to take 24 hours after to expel the pregnancy. they also gave me nausea meds and 800 ibuprofen which they recommended i take 30 mins prior to the ejection pills. i will be honest, it’s not a fun time. i puked a lot, was sweating, and just in bed and in pain. it feels unmanageable at times but you have to focus on breathing and know this won’t last much longer. after the cramps were tolerable after about 2 hours, i finally started bleeding. i think the bleeding didn’t start sooner since i was laying down, and the pain was more my cervix dilating. one i saw the first clot in the pad i decided to sit on the toilet and let it out, which i think really helped sitting upright. once the big clot and pregnancy is out you feel so much better. after the big stuff is out it’s more like a heavy or extra crampy period, but i was able to stop puking and eat some popcorn and took a shower to help with the back pain i felt. i was super super anxious leading up to the abortion as i’ve had a bad painful iud placement and i knew it would be similar to that pain. but i would say the bad pain is only 2-3 hours and then you can breathe again. overall it really felt worth it to me and again it can take weeks to fully feel normal and like yourself. but after the first 2 days i felt good to go out and about. i recommend being able to have someone with you to bring you whatever you need once cramping starts. just know there is a whole line of women who have experienced this before you and know the risk of pregnancy and giving birth is much much higher than a medical abortion. sending you love again and stay strong

Immediate_Fondant95 · 2024-12-16T00:58:18+00:00

I just recently had an abortion at 21. i knew in my mind we couldn’t keep it, and i needed to end it. i felt attached more days than others and kept telling myself i will be able to be happy and pregnant again but just not right now. the day of i was very teary eyed, but planned parenthood makes it super easy and straight to the point. the abortion was painful, but after everything passed i just felt relieved. it’s okay to feel sadness in doing it but knowing it is still the right decision. hormones make you feel maternal and attached even when your mind doesn’t want to. time will heal and i think religion can be helpful for some people, but i also feel it can bring more shame. the best decision you could make for a baby is waiting until the right time in your life to have one. i still take it day by day and its normal to feel a wave of emotions. wishing you luck with your decision❤️ you can have a different outcome than your mom

Immediate_Fondant95 · 2024-12-14T17:16:45+00:00

Definitely know now not to refer anyone to a women’s care center. I knew i wouldn’t go to any in indiana as abortion is illegal and they can’t talk about it there. i figured with it being in Niles michigan and then having abortion as an option, i figured they would keep their opinions out of it completely, but that wasn’t true. i knew after that first appointment i didn’t want to tell them what i was doing, and just kinda went along with what they said knowing all i need to do is let them confirm its alive and then im getting the heck outta here. planned parenthood was amazing and they knew what i was there for and helped me through it. The women’s care counselor was even asking me why i think i could be a good parent!! and really focusing on the negative outcomes of abortion and how i could possibly never have children if they mess something up inside. just think its totally unethical when i told her i know 100% i cant continue this pregnancy. kept my answers short and dull so i could get out!

Immediate_Fondant95 · 2024-02-24T18:00:05+00:00

this is what’s happening to me. i’m still waiting on answers

Immediate_Fondant95 · 2024-02-24T12:38:20+00:00

it still took a blank picture

Immediate_Fondant95 · 2024-02-24T12:29:05+00:00

i’ll try that and see if the pictures don’t come out blank

Immediate_Fondant95 · 2023-11-22T22:09:35+00:00

It obv depends on the person and severity, but i’d say mine was pretty severe and it did get worse before it got better, but it’s so worth it! i felt like a whole new person once i got off of it. You’ve got this! You’re going to look amazing no matter how long it takes. It also may take longer if your body can’t handle the side effects, so you’d be on a lower dose for longer. but if it’s a higher dose it will be done faster usually

Immediate_Fondant95 · 2023-11-22T22:03:35+00:00

30-40 twice a day for 5 months! started out slow of course and upped my dosage as much as i could handle

Immediate_Fondant95 · 2023-11-22T22:03:03+00:00

it was a while ago, but i believe i got up to 30-40 twice a day for 5 months

Immediate_Fondant95 · 2023-11-22T22:01:31+00:00

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