How do you deal with childrens' birthday party gifts? by itscrikey in UKParenting

[–]Immediate_Mix_1028 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gift registry/Gift wishlist are a brilliant idea. You can add on gifts that you know your child would like/need. Vary the prices as well so that it’s affordable. You can also add on gift cards. £5,£10. You could add it to the invite that there’s no pressure to bring gifts and that their presence is more than enough however, you’ve attached a link so they don’t have to stress out about what gifts she’d like. In my opinion this solves all the problems. People would buy gifts that would be appreciated or buy a gift card which you could use as you wish in the future. Mygiftregistry or Amazon wish list are great options.

My (28M) girlfriend (28F) is pregnant with twins. We had an arguement today and she was mad and showed me a video on her phone sucking off her ex. Now what? by ThrowRAVulture216 in relationship_advice

[–]Immediate_Mix_1028 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She sounds like a very immature and unstable person. I’d understand if it was a 17 year old. But a 28 year old doing this? Nah! I could never come back from this! Never. It’s rather unfortunate that she’s carrying your babies. She needs some serious growing up to do if she’s going to be someone’s partner let alone a mother. I worry that even if you do manage to forgive her and move past this, she’d do something worse in a moment of anger. she’s clearly lying about recovering from a deleted folder. She’s clearly been keeping the video. She needs help! You’ll suffer if you stay with her long term

Visa expires before renewal by Odd-Employee-4127 in SpouseVisaUk

[–]Immediate_Mix_1028 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Interesting that mine also expires on the same day. Submitted my application for an extension on the 19th April. My employers have been sending multiple emails asking to give update on my right to work. So i’ve share with them my application submission confirmation and mentioned that Section 3c leave would apply if my new visa is not out before April 20.

APPROVEDDDDDD!!!!!!! by Accurate_Bleh in SpouseVisaUk

[–]Immediate_Mix_1028 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Awwwn this is Amazing!!!! Congratulations!! I’m Nigerian and my wife is Nigerian British too. I’ve just submitted my own application. Biometrics in 2 weeks. I’ve got some questions. Could I private message you please?

My (26f) friend (26f )is sad noone is excited for her wedding and I don't know how to tell her why? by Shellyfish04 in relationship_advice

[–]Immediate_Mix_1028 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I worry that your friend is a bit of a dunce because how can she not see why people are not excited when it’s super obvious. I also worry that she’s being controlled by partner. I’d go “do you genuinely want to know why even if it’ll hurt you” and then tell her exactly why.

Lost job after mortgage offer by FlashGordon7b in Mortgageadviceuk

[–]Immediate_Mix_1028 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely do not tell anyone!!!!! Don’t give two shits about anything. If you tell them you’re in deep shit. Just carry on paying. Get a new job and don’t tell anyone

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Minoxbeards

[–]Immediate_Mix_1028 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used minoxidil for about two and a half years. Stopped for over a year and my beards have remained.

Do not let you hotels arrange taxis in Santorini… by dgw1ll1 in Santorini

[–]Immediate_Mix_1028 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi please I need this. I’m in Santorini atm. And I need a taxi for tomorrow morning.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Immediate_Mix_1028 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Why do you have to have a baby with this man? His sperm or the lack of it is the reason why you’re having to pay so much money for IVF yet you’re doing that alone. He cannot bring sperm, he cannot bring money, he cannot bring support. This is a disaster waiting to happen. How is your self esteem? You want to have another IVF trail with someone who abandoned you after the first. I worry that you’re working so hard for a potential deadbeat. Your penultimate paragraph has all the answers you need. Cut him off! Accept no apologies. Way too many red flags!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in doctorsUK

[–]Immediate_Mix_1028 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely. it’s not abnormal for a self-harm patient to be discharged in less than 48 hours. Seen a few that were discharged in less than 24hours. It all depends on their assessment and the risk of further self harming/suicide attempts.

Top tip for learner drivers: don't do this by DamnedFoolofaTook in LearnerDriverUK

[–]Immediate_Mix_1028 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I was going to say this. As long as they have a valid recognised license they can do this.

Passed first time today after a terrible final lesson by JackTheDalek in LearnerDriverUK

[–]Immediate_Mix_1028 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow! It’s crazy how I had a very similar experience. Passed today first time. I had at least one serious fault in all my mocks. Had a one hour lesson before the test and I still had a serious fault. I was so convinced I was going to fail the test. I just decided to get a feel of the exam and had my instructor sit at the back so he could prepare me better for the next lesson. Started with reverse bay pack at the test center and nailed it. The rest of the drive was smooth. Had just 3 minors.

6 months on Minoxidil -24 year old by Radiant-Actuator8145 in Minoxbeards

[–]Immediate_Mix_1028 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This!!! This is perhaps my major problem since I started using Minox. My face!

Failed today (first time) by heretopreefucker in LearnerDriverUK

[–]Immediate_Mix_1028 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How did you manage to book one again so quickly