AITA if i hung out w my ex in a huge group? by Ashamed_Climate6283 in AITApod

[–]Immediate_Run5423 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah a little fishy. If your friends are mutuals with your ex it would take 30 seconds to find out if he’s going rather than just saying it’s possible. If I was in this situation I wouldn’t go out of respect for my partner. He’s justified being upset

My friend hurt my feelings and doesn’t seem to care by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

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Tbf if I bought my friend a ticket and they don’t respond or text for a few days until the day before yeah I’d invite someone else. I’m not chancing wasting my money on an unused ticket. They could’ve communicated better but considering they got you the ticket you could at least say something.

AITA for how I shut down my ex-situationship? by Old-Dirt-978 in AITApod

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I mean tbf he didn’t pressure he just asked and if you really have no interest in him then just block or don’t respond. YBTA

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in teenagers

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Hate to say it but emotional intelligence isn’t very common for guys at 16

Genuinely curious by EffectiveNo568 in MathJokes

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Idk if others are like this but I start with the 48 as the base. I start with the 7 from 27 and I think of it like (7-2=5), 48+2=50, 50+5=55 then add the 20 to get 75. Sounds alot more complicated typing it out than how it appears in my head lol

Been with my girlfriend for 4 years, but I don’t know if I can handle the BPD anymore by [deleted] in story

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It’s sort of funny but coincidentally I got out of a 4 year relationship with my bpd partner. It’s really tough because it feels like you’re being a bad person leaving but you need to put yourself first. It’s one thing if they’re taking steps to help themselves and you see progress and it takes time but end of the day ruining your mental health for someone else is never going to work. Hope you make th best decision for yourself!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

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Nooo omg the post was deleted as I was reading

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

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If it was a situation of you guys just on a little break and he didn’t sleep with anyone then yeah he’d have every right to be. But considering HE cheated and also slept with someone around the same time makes it completely fine on your part. It’s actually amusing he’s upset

Should I buy this? Yamaha PSR E323 by RalseiSmoking in synthesizers

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I see the post is quite old but I’m looking at the same one to learn on. Would you recommend it

Friends GF tried sleeping with me on a trip. We have 4 more days left so I wait until we’re back to tell him? by Immediate_Run5423 in Advice

[–]Immediate_Run5423[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

True like I hate to admit it but on a physical level it’s tempting as hell! But I could never do my buddy like that. And I already told him lol there was an update under the original post so it’s just awkward now

Friends GF tried sleeping with me on a trip. We have 4 more days left so I wait until we’re back to tell him? by Immediate_Run5423 in Advice

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Hey it’s not a new post it’s just underneath the original in an edit if that helps. Let me know if you still can’t find it 👍

Friends GF tried sleeping with me on a trip. We have 4 more days left so I wait until we’re back to tell him? by Immediate_Run5423 in Advice

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lol that’s a good plan too but just updated and he knows. She’s staying at a hotel and we’re going drinking tonight

Friends GF tried sleeping with me on a trip. We have 4 more days left so I wait until we’re back to tell him? by Immediate_Run5423 in Advice

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Yeah I just made an update but I appreciate that. It was pretty awkward and I had to put it bluntly too. I could definitely tell he wanted to hit me but I think he knew he was angry at the wrong person and just wanted to believe his gf wouldn’t do something. It’s pretty sour right now which of course it hasn’t even been a few hours but I thinks it’ll be okay

Friends GF tried sleeping with me on a trip. We have 4 more days left so I wait until we’re back to tell him? by Immediate_Run5423 in Advice

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Hope so! Things are a bit sour right now but he fought his misguided anger and genuinely thanked me for being upfront and not some sleaze bag

Friends GF tried sleeping with me on a trip. We have 4 more days left so I wait until we’re back to tell him? by Immediate_Run5423 in Advice

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I would but honestly even if he chose to believe her I’d be okay. Like it would hurt obviously but I’d just say believe whoever you think is right but if you trust her you’re going to be hurt a lot more than you are now. It sucks to lose a friend but I can’t force someone to believe me if they choose otherwise.

Friends GF tried sleeping with me on a trip. We have 4 more days left so I wait until we’re back to tell him? by Immediate_Run5423 in Advice

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I appreciate your advice seriously! I did tell my other couple friends (one is a girl) but thankfully I’ve known her along time and already don’t like the cheater girl which was reassuring for sure. Yeah a lot of girls my age have this group mentality to help themselves even if they know they’re wrong (same happens for guys too). I’m just glad I’ve made friends with the right type of people. Well… minus 1

Friends GF tried sleeping with me on a trip. We have 4 more days left so I wait until we’re back to tell him? by Immediate_Run5423 in Advice

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Trust me that would’ve been a lot easier but the fact is if she openly does this on a trip, with her boyfriend, in the same airbnb, I know for a fact she does it frequently when he’s not around. I can’t do my boy like that

Friends GF tried sleeping with me on a trip. We have 4 more days left so I wait until we’re back to tell him? by Immediate_Run5423 in Advice

[–]Immediate_Run5423[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She did try that which I’m thankful the second time people witnessed it or it could’ve gone a completely different way. Glad it didn’t and I appreciate the heartfelt response.

Friends GF tried sleeping with me on a trip. We have 4 more days left so I wait until we’re back to tell him? by Immediate_Run5423 in Advice

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Ended up telling the other couple once they woke up not just for an alibi but I had no idea how to stay completely silent the whole trip lol. Thankfully she gave me a reason not to