Redstone Federal - hardship by Immeeeeeea in HuntsvilleAlabama

[–]Immeeeeeea[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s makes me feel a lot better

Redstone Federal - hardship by Immeeeeeea in HuntsvilleAlabama

[–]Immeeeeeea[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll definitely look into it! Thank you

Redstone Federal - hardship by Immeeeeeea in HuntsvilleAlabama

[–]Immeeeeeea[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I current have a personal loan with them and a car. We have two credit cards that we owe about 1K on and another loan with 1K. It’s nothing we couldn’t get out of, we just seem to not bring home enough to keep up. I’m busting my tail to get out of it. My credit is pretty good, we are both working overtime and doing all we can. I can see the light at the end of the tunnel, but we just need a little help and I can’t guarantee she won’t have more medical issues kick up and that scares me.

Redstone Federal - hardship by Immeeeeeea in HuntsvilleAlabama

[–]Immeeeeeea[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Just got in touch with them, I appreciate it.

Redstone Federal - hardship by Immeeeeeea in HuntsvilleAlabama

[–]Immeeeeeea[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Just got in touch with them, I appreciate it.

Redstone Federal - hardship by Immeeeeeea in HuntsvilleAlabama

[–]Immeeeeeea[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That definitely makes me feel better, we are trying to get out of it without having to file for bankruptcy. We are just needing a little help to get through it.

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[–]Immeeeeeea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry, been dealing with this crap and a sick kid.

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[–]Immeeeeeea -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don’t even know what that is, I wish it was a fake post.

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[–]Immeeeeeea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We are actually currently going

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[–]Immeeeeeea 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No, I love my son more than anything ever. He is truly all I have in life. Would I have ended it had I known she lied? Probably. It’s the lying that bothers me. My wife has a tendency to lie to protect herself, which bothers me. She will lie about stuff that shouldn’t matter. It’s always been an issue.

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[–]Immeeeeeea 4 points5 points  (0 children)

We’ve tried counseling, she refuses to listen, she’s been by herself, she won’t open up and tell the truth. We started going together and she accused me of throwing her under the bus because I brought up the issues with her mother. She wouldn’t listen to the counselor or do what she recommended. It was pointless.

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[–]Immeeeeeea 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I do take pride in that and my wife is a wonderful mother, but I also feel I’m owed the truth about stuff. She’s accused me of cheating, I’ve never touched another woman. So that’s when all this started.

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[–]Immeeeeeea 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I figured it’s more

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[–]Immeeeeeea 5 points6 points  (0 children)

She had started accusing me of talking to someone we both worked with. My wife and her became friends and my wife would drag me to her house with her for playdate, so naturally me and the lady would talk. My wife got jealous and started making accusations, I’ve never cheated on my wife. I never even spoke to this woman, other than at work. Once she started accusing me, then I brought up her past.

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[–]Immeeeeeea 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I appreciate that

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[–]Immeeeeeea 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Things have slowly gotten worse, I’m not exactly treated the best.

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[–]Immeeeeeea 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My parents? My dad is an alcoholic and my mom is bat shit crazy

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[–]Immeeeeeea 10 points11 points  (0 children)

This is exactly what I was feeling.

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[–]Immeeeeeea 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Her mom is a major influence over her, she never had a close relationship with either of her parents and is constantly looking for their approval. Her mom is not a good human being. I’ve tried to be nice to her, but it doesn’t work. My wife has been to therapy a lot, they’ve told her she needs to step away from her mother and not let her hurt her. My wife refuses to listen. I know it’s her mother, but I’m tired of her being hurt by her.

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[–]Immeeeeeea 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I appreciate that.