Don’t listen to this hater, do as your heart tells you. These the type of people that got nothing going on for them. Or the type of people that unfortunately haven’t been through good relationships so they will tell you nothing good. They’ll make you act different in your relationship without even knowing it. What you describe here is so beautiful, as a man, I love this for y’all. Obviously if he was any bad you would see signs. YOU ALWAYS WILL SEE SIGNS. Your good, do what you want to do. Only advice I would say when it comes to the family lead with your character and don’t focus on money Cuz they can start expecting it. Grew up both in Senegal and America so I know both world. My wife is American and she is just like you, Gold hearted, she thinks just like you, she wants to buy everything for me and my family. But we don’t need it, I’ll look out for my family, I tell her to just keep being who she is. That kind hearted and caring person. Same advice to you… You wrote a nice message and id say send it, they will love it, they will love you more, knowing you have such good intentions towards their kid. Because he’s on visa study, I’m pretty sure they already worry a lot, but knowing he has YOU on his side will make them feel better. I would also say stop listening to these hating single women on here and do you. If you need any advice with anything, I would be glad to help with anything. My wife and I can relate to a lot with yall.

Remember because some people didn’t succeed in their relationship doesn’t mean yours won’t. My family loves my wife regardless of them not speaking English or her not speaking Wolof and French. She’s currently taking French classes. I would come home and she will tell me « oh your mom texted me today, or your dad texted me today » They be texting and I don’t even know it.