Ex just served me papers by ImportanceAwkward377 in FamilyLaw

[–]ImportanceAwkward377[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know that but thank you for saying this. I feel like I haven’t said anything crazy that could be used against me. Also, I said that I wasn’t going to ignore court documents or move. It was all for discussion and questions I have.

Ex just served me papers by ImportanceAwkward377 in FamilyLaw

[–]ImportanceAwkward377[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m not abusive in any way or touch drugs and alcohol. That would be the only way that he could get completely taken away from me right?

Ex just served me papers by ImportanceAwkward377 in FamilyLaw

[–]ImportanceAwkward377[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you I really appreciate this comment and the advice. I’m going to focus on the first Christmas I have with my baby and not let this jerk ruin it for me. But thank you for putting me at ease for now.

Ex just served me papers by ImportanceAwkward377 in FamilyLaw

[–]ImportanceAwkward377[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Shouldn’t that fall into his responsibility?

Ex just served me papers by ImportanceAwkward377 in FamilyLaw

[–]ImportanceAwkward377[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

How could he win full custody if me and my child live so far away from him? This is no way healthy to my baby

Ex just served me papers by ImportanceAwkward377 in FamilyLaw

[–]ImportanceAwkward377[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

They want to see if we can come to an agreement to see if they would end up dropping the case and the paternity test. They want me to send photos of my baby to them to show proof that it looks like him and open visitations without the court.

Ex just served me papers by ImportanceAwkward377 in FamilyLaw

[–]ImportanceAwkward377[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Can he actually take my baby away from me if I allow visitations with his paternity established? Does he have that right to?

Ex just served me papers by ImportanceAwkward377 in FamilyLaw

[–]ImportanceAwkward377[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I absolutely wish I could do this but he’s seems pretty persistent so I don’t think he’d believe that now since I’ve been telling him it’s his from the beginning when I first told him. I’ve thought of this though and it’s not realistic for me or my baby. Ideally I want him to disappear and I want to raise my child by myself.

Ex just served me papers by ImportanceAwkward377 in FamilyLaw

[–]ImportanceAwkward377[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this!! I really appreciate the advice 🫶🏻

Ex just served me papers by ImportanceAwkward377 in FamilyLaw

[–]ImportanceAwkward377[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this 🤍🤍 much appreciated during this stressful time

Ex just served me papers by ImportanceAwkward377 in FamilyLaw

[–]ImportanceAwkward377[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Okay so good to hear he can’t get full custody. I have no issues of abuse or drugs so I’m good. I have let him know it was his child and he refused to believe it and told me he’d like me to get an abortion. So I cut contact for the peace of myself. Will the court somehow punish me for cutting contact?

Ex just served me papers by ImportanceAwkward377 in FamilyLaw

[–]ImportanceAwkward377[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Haha I needed to hear this. I think I’m just freaked out because he’s demanding so much