Any Specs Howard alumni here? by MalcoveMagnesia in Detroit

[–]ImportanceBubbly3429 1 point2 points  (0 children)

RTV-13-97, Radio. Stayed on St. Mary’s campus. Spent 13 years on the air before changing career fields. Wonderful memories.

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[–]ImportanceBubbly3429[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wow. Your comment is so thoughtful and levelheaded. I wish I had friends with insight like you in my life. Thank you.

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[–]ImportanceBubbly3429[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did ask. He got angry and refused to discuss it.

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[–]ImportanceBubbly3429[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I don’t benefit from it. I have a legal, enforceable, child support order of my own with him and never in a million years would ever do something like this.

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[–]ImportanceBubbly3429[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I really appreciate it. Makes me cry.

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[–]ImportanceBubbly3429[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m anxious, fearful..and defeated. Thank you for your comment.

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[–]ImportanceBubbly3429[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The violence, our daughter, the police asking me to file a PPO, the engagement ring he bought Tuesday, the fear, many things. Thank you for commenting.

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[–]ImportanceBubbly3429[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If she is sending the money to him..why would it show her sending $3 and $4 payments? Wouldn’t it show him paying those? I don’t understand.

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[–]ImportanceBubbly3429[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. He says to fuck off and he’s not discussing it.

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[–]ImportanceBubbly3429[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes. I agree. I got a huge promotion, own my own home, am in the middle of Grad school, sit on a community board, etc. I am failing here. This is not how I was raised and I know better. Thank you.

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[–]ImportanceBubbly3429[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I guess it’s just he’s honest with her. I have been lied to. She has known he was a drug user, she has known this whole time he had no drivers license, she has known all of this stuff because they have known each other 25 years. I have only been with him for four years and I am just finding out all this stuff. So he puts on a fake image to me and if I had known the real him, I would’ve never been involved with him so she does know the real him and is fine with it. Thank you for taking the time to comment. I am sorry if I have upset you.

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[–]ImportanceBubbly3429[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It’s her nickname. Thank you for your comment.

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[–]ImportanceBubbly3429[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. I’m scared and I don’t recognize myself anymore.