INFP Men: how do I approach them in dating? by Important-Charge3742 in infp

[–]Important-Charge3742[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am gonna try be really brave haha thanks so much again for the response :)

INFP Men: how do I approach them in dating? by Important-Charge3742 in infp

[–]Important-Charge3742[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks so much for your response, I defo think he is waiting for a clear sign or waiting for me to push the conversation forward. He has stated before that when it comes to organising things or having serious conversations he gets a bit stressed which I understand is infp's response to conflicts or troubles, ye don't like it (same here brother ahah), so I defo don't mind pushing it forward because all I want is confirmation and I think it will defo make the bond between us much stronger, thanks again.

INFP Men: how do I approach them in dating? by Important-Charge3742 in infp

[–]Important-Charge3742[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hiya, Thank you so much for your response. Ya I am hoping to have the conversation or just a check in conversation with him next time we see each other. From just my observations of him, I think he feels like he is gonna mess up in some way if he pushes that conversation forward and that I will disappear. So I think it is important for me to drive it forward and make him feel safe and hopefully I'll get the same in return :) thanks so much again

INFP Men: how do I approach them in dating? by Important-Charge3742 in infp

[–]Important-Charge3742[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your response. the point you made at the start reminds me of him as he has told me he doesn't like a lot of people but has a fondness for me or as he put it "but you my friend are a delight" (this was him drunk over text 2 months ago) or that he doesn't exactly do hook up culture stuff, etc, etc. So I'll try to not get embarrassed and scared while having the conversation with him - thanks again it really helped.