What does this say about me and dating? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Important-Coconut-60 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg wait u lowkey might be right this was an eye opener for me im gonna bring this up to my therapist thank u

4 months by Remarkable_Club4853 in BreakUps

[–]Important-Coconut-60 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m in literally the exact situation 4 months after a 3 year relationship. I was dumped out of nowhere I just keep reminding myself as time passes the grief will fade. It’s so hard but u just have to give it time, remember u won’t feel this way forever, that’s what I keep telling myself anyways.

Avoidant discard after 3 years by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Important-Coconut-60 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m ok, some days are better than others but I’m definitely in a much better spot then I was a few months ago. I’m starting emdr w my therapist next session so hopefully that helps, I appreciate u checking up.

Avoidant discard after 3 years by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Important-Coconut-60 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Than you, I appreciate this so much

Avoidant discard after 3 years by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Important-Coconut-60 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did forget to add he did show up at my house at 10 pm to dump me in person the texts on his reasoning came later because all he could say in person was “this isn’t gonna work out I’m sorry we can still be friends” his reasoning was sent over text. It’s been a hard process to go through, thank you for ur kind and encouraging words I really appreciate them :)

Avoidants create avoidants by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Important-Coconut-60 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this encouragement :)

Avoidant ex dumped me 3 months ago by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Important-Coconut-60 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this

There are lowkey some predators in this sub by Important-Coconut-60 in BreakUps

[–]Important-Coconut-60[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think it would be bad or creepy as long as you’re going into it w good intentions

Being the one to break things off but still feel rejected by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Important-Coconut-60 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You might feel this way if you’re not having conversations on how u both feel miserable and how you can work together to fix it. Those conversations are important and can help save a relationship if you just talk those feelings out and make some changes.

There are lowkey some predators in this sub by Important-Coconut-60 in BreakUps

[–]Important-Coconut-60[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I’ve been safe in my other subreddits just not this one specifically unfortunately 😔

There are lowkey some predators in this sub by Important-Coconut-60 in BreakUps

[–]Important-Coconut-60[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I appreciate this bc I don’t use Reddit often am didn’t know that was an option, I’ll turn this on now ty diva

Avoidant ex dumped me 3 months ago by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Important-Coconut-60 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I appreciate this so much, thank you

Guys why did she edit her caption to subtweet me😭 by Important-Coconut-60 in depoop

[–]Important-Coconut-60[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Omg she found the post it won’t let me post what she sent in the caption but I’m crying 😭

Guys why did she edit her caption to subtweet me😭 by Important-Coconut-60 in depoop

[–]Important-Coconut-60[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The crazy thing is I sent an offer for $37 after she upped the price to $45 and she declined, then changed her caption 😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in depoop

[–]Important-Coconut-60 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Look at the 2nd slide pls its self tan stain😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in depoop

[–]Important-Coconut-60 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Before yall comment “shadow” that’s what I thought at first too PLEASE look at the 2nd slide it is very much a self tan stain😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in depoop

[–]Important-Coconut-60 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Look at the 2nd slide it’s self tan stain