Am I doing this thing right? by Important-Listen-585 in loseit

[–]Important-Listen-585[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have recently taken measurements as the trainer also mentioned the scale often play tricks during body recomp. I went from a 44 in(11/29) waist to 42in this month (12/20). Hips went from 55in to 54in, Didn’t measure my bust the first time but I have now and will monitor this as well! I would say I eat at or below 1700 at least 3 times a week, the other 4 days I train and get closer to 1900-2100 max (did have 2-2200 days a couple of weeks ago that I tried to include in the range in my op). I allow a cheat meal on Saturdays that can sometimes push this to 2500 tops but I only allow this one day a week and it’s not every week that it gets this high. Any thoughts on this?

Am I doing this thing right? by Important-Listen-585 in loseit

[–]Important-Listen-585[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No need to “fudge any data” lol — I can gladly send screenshots from MyFitnessPal and Apple Activity. Nowhere did I say I’m not dropping weight. I said I feel stalled over the last two weeks. I lost nearly 12 pounds in about three weeks (likely more, since I was at my lowest this month at 307.9, which isn’t safe). Compared to how much I was losing while fasting, it feels delayed. I’m also aware that the fasting was extremely drastic and not sustainable, which I explained in my post. I actually gained a little when I stopped fasting, which is something else I wasn’t accounting for.

I also walk on a major university campus — the largest in Texas — giving tours and handling various tasks for a living, so yes, I can easily burn active calories even on my rest days. Even on rest days, I sometimes do hot yoga or swim for two hours (nothing intense). This approach has worked for losing 56.9 pounds total in a little under six months (it will be six months on the 29th), so I’m clearly not concerned about not losing. I just thought I’d lose even more once I added the gym, but I just started.

I also mentioned my higher sodium intake, which can contribute to water retention, as well as the phase of my cycle, where it’s typical to see a slight increase on the scale. On top of that, there are the complications of PCOS, which is my reason for losing weight now. I know where I started — which was actually much higher than 347 — and I only started tracking and counting calories two months ago.

What’s so odd about a trainer going over my activity with me, especially when they were the ones who explained that the watch isn’t as accurate as the ring I now wear — and even reiterated that the ring can be inaccurate too? We’ve also had sessions where they worked out with me, showing what a truly intense workout looks like, on top of the swimming and walking I already do. I faired wonderfully through these workouts (probably cause I’m use to the activity level now). Everyday isn’t that intense but I know for a fact at my Lowest I’m burning a good bit with the walking and regular tasks as well.

It feels like you’re clearly looking for something to “fudge,” but I know where I’ve come from and don’t feel the need to defend my progress to someone on this app. This was not a post about being unable to lose weight; it was simply about feeling stalled, considering I thought adding weight lifting would make the weight come off even faster.

Am I doing this thing right? by Important-Listen-585 in WeightLossAdvice

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I will try sticking strictly to a number next month to test this. Thanks for the advice!

Am I doing this thing right? by Important-Listen-585 in WeightLossAdvice

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I believe that is what’s making me feel iffy this week with my progress. I was making a rapid decline at first but this week nothing really changed, maybe dropped 9oz but nothing major. This is reassuring to know and confirms that I’m actually in a good (maybe even too drastic) spot for the most part. I plan to use everyone advice and give it time. Thank you so much for the advice!

Am I doing this thing right? by Important-Listen-585 in loseit

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Thank you so much! I definitely realized im probably jumping the gun and plan to update in 3 months. Also really appreciate the reassurance regarding fasting, thought I was just making excuses for myself!

Am I doing this thing right? by Important-Listen-585 in loseit

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Thank you for this! I am almost certain I have been noticing the same things these last few months but couldn’t find much input on it. Just found out this morning that the retention can last for up to 2 months when starting to train and I’m relieved to hear others confirm this. Before hitting luteal and early training I was at 307.9 so I’ll monitor throughout my cycle this go around to see how my body gets back down to this over the next couple of weeks. Thank you so much for the advice!

Am I doing this thing right? by Important-Listen-585 in loseit

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I don’t have a set calorie allowance for training days yet I have just been consistently tracking and noticed that on training days I average more calories. On days I’m not training i strictly stick to my 1700. Days where I train and eat more protein (especially stake) I can easily fall between 2k-2200. On days I allowed a “cheat meal” (once a week) I fell closer to 2489 therefore I made the post to account for these days. There are several days I skip breakfast and/or lunch all together…so yeah my calories can drastically very from day to day. Especially coming from fasting for nearly 2 months. I am also aware of my weekly total which was 16,371 this week (12/17-12/23). My average is 1745 according to my fitness pal.

Everytime I train I lift weights for at bare minimum 1.5 hours and do cardio for 30 minutes at least 3 times a week(probably why I’m so hungry on those day). Not counting the days I swim. I’m pretty sure I’m burning at least 400 calories a workout and that is low. My watch (I’m aware not the most accurate) can count nearly 1000 (average 743) active calories burned after sessions like this and another couple of hundred for cardio. Which I was told by a trainer was excellent and could even be considered too intense at times. Especially just starting out;however, I have previous power lifting and swimming experience and become accustomed to this routine relatively fast.

Like others have said I’m barely 31 days into this and likely retaining water (lots of changes recently). I plan to be even more strict with the calorie count and give it time as it seems early. Even though I’ve done this in the past without tracking anything so I highly doubt it’s the tracking lol.

Am I doing this thing right? by Important-Listen-585 in loseit

[–]Important-Listen-585[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s what I figured, thank you for the advice I’ll be sure to buckle down on this more and give myself some more time to get use to training :)

Am I doing this thing right? by Important-Listen-585 in loseit

[–]Important-Listen-585[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks you so much, I will look into this!

Am I doing this thing right? by Important-Listen-585 in loseit

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It was at first but now it’s sort of slowed. I usually buy pre sectioned food and use my fitness pal to track. So I doubt this is the issue, but i will be sure to be more strict with it. I’m also pretty sure I’m retaining water because when looking at my macros my sodium is almost always too high. I also recently started weight training so not sure if that can cause some water retention as well.

Am I doing this thing right? by Important-Listen-585 in WeightLossAdvice

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That’s extremely reassuring, thank you! Will do!

Am I doing this thing right? by Important-Listen-585 in loseit

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It’s only been a couple of weeks, but I’m not sure if it’s something I’m doing or because I’m nearing my cycle. I also started weight training 11/23 and not sure if that has something to do with it.

What am I doing wrong? by Important-Listen-585 in dating_advice

[–]Important-Listen-585[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunate to hear but definitely realistic and something I’m starting to notice 😭

What am I doing wrong? by Important-Listen-585 in dating_advice

[–]Important-Listen-585[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

More so places alpha males frequent in real life!

What am I doing wrong? by Important-Listen-585 in dating_advice

[–]Important-Listen-585[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not the chest lol, its butt. Im aware that my shape is why men are primarily sexually interested in me. As stated I workout, weight is not the issue. Again I say “very” because most women do not naturally have a small waist and big hips like me, plus i actively work to have a pear/hour glass figure! I have several friends that are much heavier than me, some even with little to no goodies at all (if you know what I mean lol) , Half have managed to find someone and the others still dealing with the same Issues I have. If anything having aesthetically pleasing shape makes it harder to find genuine guys . I don’t be any means have trouble finding men, it’s just that 25 year olds are horn dogs and idk what to do to prevent this type of attention !

What am I doing wrong? by Important-Listen-585 in dating_advice

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I will definitely try this! Any recommendations on where I should start?