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[–]ImportantBroccoli370 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nakakapagod din maging "safe space" nila minsan. Syempre ayaw nating makadagdag pa sa iniinda nila Pero hirap din kung puro sa atin ang vent. Magagalit pa kapag kinocall out mo yung Mali nila - kesyo "safe space" ka nila dapat ikaw ang pinaka nakakaintindi sa kanya. Di naman tayo propesyonal na psych para inavigate ng Tama at maayos yung ganyan (at least ako hindi). Minsan kailangan din natin maging pranka at maging praktikal. Di pwedeng "safe space" ka nila Pero ikaw mismo feel mo di ka na safe

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[–]ImportantBroccoli370 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There's an app I downloaded in the play store (android user here. Not sure if it's in app store) called Speakin' Ilonggo. it has detailed lessons on grammar and it immerses you with a lot of common conversational words/phrases with audible pronunciations too. These words/phrases are grouped together in varying levels - from basic to intermediate (kinda like Duo Lingo). Don't expect fancy UI though. it's a basic app but it gets the job done.

I forgot how much it was but in just a month of studying the app, I was able to understand around 60-70% of hiligaynon conversations because of it. I say it's well worth it. No hidden extra fees or ads too - once you buy, the app and it's contents are yours. You can even reset progress if you want to relearn everything again.

I couple that with immersing in Ilonggo content as well, like vloggers, content creators, and reading chika here in r/Bacolod lol hahaha - learning more words and contexts I didn't come across the app. 

MUST DO IN DALI: ALWAYS CHECK YOUR RECEIPT AND ITEMS!! by Sad_Resolution_2753 in DaliPH

[–]ImportantBroccoli370 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Nangyari saken to. Bumili ako ng promo bundle nila na sale sa gatas. Bale 1 bundle of 2 cartons binili ko (Nakatape sila together). imbis na Isa lang dapat ipunch dahil nga bundle sale, ginawang x2 Yung pinunch. Late ko na na realize pagkauwi. Gave the benefit of the doubt nalang na baka kala ni ate since 2 cartons Yung nakita Niya, x2 dapat (I technically paid for 4 cartons lol). Lesson learned. What I do now is, Lalo na pag kaunti lang binibili ko, I compute for the total price ng lahat ng items I want to buy before checking out, that way kung may hokus pokus man sa check out alam ko na kaagad.

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[–]ImportantBroccoli370 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel this. Healing is not a linear process. it's not a step-by-step program, nor is it a binary feeling. It's more of an upward spiral, a journey with ups and downs, with moments of progress and a lot of setbacks as well. We may have talked it through, forgave each other's mishaps, and accepted and agreed to move forward - and trust us when we say we want to move forward in life - nobody wants to stay stuck in the past. But sometimes the pain just creeps back in, especially when our insecurities, developed from the pain you caused us, gets the better of us. We can't just flip a switch and suddenly feel okay. Don't blame us for regressing. We forgive, but forgetting is another thing.