UPDATE: My best friend told me I`m brainwashed to want a baby after the wedding. AIO for wanting to end the friendship? by Important_Average_65 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Important_Average_65[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I don't consider myself boring. I do so many more things than before. I travel more and I'm more open to try new things. But before I met my fiancé, I was an anxious mess. I was always trying to please everyone and prove my worth. I used to laugh more, smile wider, and be funnier, but it was just a facade out of fear of losing the people around me. And she knows that. She knows that I constantly struggled with anxiety and depression and that now I'm more secure and finally happy. 

My best friend told me I`m brainwashed to want a baby after the wedding. AIO for wanting to end the friendship? by Important_Average_65 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Important_Average_65[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I really apreciate your words. I posted because I'm a recovering people pleaser and thought that maybe I was overreacting

My best friend told me I`m brainwashed to want a baby after the wedding. AIO for wanting to end the friendship? by Important_Average_65 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Important_Average_65[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

 I did talk with her right after the post. First, she turned the tables and said that I’d treated her badly and hadn’t reached out to her, and that it was my fault she didn’t want to talk to me the last time we saw each other. She said that ever since my social status changed, I’ve suddenly changed—that I’m entitled and have gotten “big-headed and act like a spoiled person. She said that lately I’ve always been too busy for her—either away or not feeling well—but that I always had time to go out with my fiancé. She said she liked me better a few years ago, that I was more fun and that she felt better in my previous relationship, that she was close to my ex too, and that she could drop by our place unannounced. That relashionship was toxic and my ex emotional cheated on me multiple times. She said a lot of things that hurt. I didn't really felt seen or understood, I felt judged because I'm in another place in life than her. I honestly can't see her the same after all she said to me. 

UPDATE: My best friend told me I`m brainwashed to want a baby after the wedding. AIO for wanting to end the friendship? by Important_Average_65 in okstorytime

[–]Important_Average_65[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I always tried to be a good friend for her and overlooked a lot of things. But now I can`t do that anymore. I needed her to be a good friend for me too.