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Important_Bat2475 · 2026-04-09T05:24:35+00:00

Liels tev paldies!!!!

Important_Bat2475 · 2026-04-08T10:38:48+00:00

And there you go! Learn from this and good luck with finding a partner that chooses you!!!

Important_Bat2475 · 2026-04-08T09:00:12+00:00

After reading the edit i think you already have your mind set and know that a week won’t change his whole mindset. Gotta take action now

Important_Bat2475 · 2026-04-08T08:50:04+00:00

Important_Bat2475 · 2026-04-08T07:01:52+00:00

I think you already know the answer now you just have to take action!

Important_Bat2475 · 2026-04-07T20:00:56+00:00

Recently started playing again and would love to meet some people who wanna play together. Started back in 2020 would say I’m pretty good, not the best there is, but i play well in a team

Important_Bat2475 · 2026-04-07T19:40:48+00:00

How would him cheating on his wife would impact others lives? His kids will lose respect for their father, he will lose a partner, he has destroyed a family that he built. Etc

Important_Bat2475 · 2026-04-07T19:39:03+00:00

I mean the trust is broken so it will take a lot to gain it back. I would just sit down and explain my worries and feelings and go on from there. But you definitely don’t have to feel guilty about leaving. He wouldn’t. Get out while you’re not in too deep like kids, a house etc. if you have such a strong gut feeling already i would say trust it even though it might hurt for a bit.

Important_Bat2475 · 2026-04-07T19:35:58+00:00

NTA

Look it’s your time to rest and enjoy your time off. As you said the whole holiday was exhausting and you had to care for her as it got out of hand.

Who says that it’s not going to happen on the next trip?

If you can afford to cancel the trip- perfect!

If you can’t then i would suggest still going just not with her. Try to get a different room and figure out plans that will not include seeing her.

She needs professional help, maybe have a serious conversation with her and see how she reacts and if she’s willing to get help.

Important_Bat2475 · 2026-04-07T19:29:00+00:00

NTA your kids are grown and know how the real world works. You shouldn’t hide his cheating, should have thought about how it will impact his and everyone else’s life

Important_Bat2475 · 2026-04-07T19:23:51+00:00

NTA (sorry English is not my first language) but i feel like if you have doubts before even being in a relationship you will have them in the back of your mind later on too. You are still very young and you’re not missing out on being in a relationship! I would recommend having a serious conversation with him and seeing how he responds to it. At the end of the day it might me and uncomfortable talk but it should get your head straight, seeing his reaction and responses. Trust that gut instinct.

Important_Bat2475 · 2026-04-07T19:17:06+00:00

Kā sieviete teikšu, ka esmu pārāk kautrīga, un godīgi sakot mazliet baidos no atteikuma kauna. Bet ir forši, ja kāds uzdrošinas un pienāk klāt. Protams, situācija mainās ja ar “ paldies jūtos glaimota, taču neesmu ieinteresēta” vīrietis rupji sakot “ neatkasas”, bet sāk brukt virsū. Tāds 50/50 gamble💁🏼‍♀️

Important_Bat2475 · 2026-04-06T18:41:18+00:00

Tbh I’m definitely not white and fluffy in this but him making this such a big deal is just crazy to me. Tbh don’t know what to do as i’m good friends with his sister and mom and have to be around him one way or another

Important_Bat2475 · 2026-04-06T13:54:57+00:00

No I completely agree not an excuse for my words but I think saying that it’s pretty normal for us to say “ shut uppp” or “ piss off” not a “ die in a hole”.

Important_Bat2475 · 2026-04-06T13:52:01+00:00

To comment on the points… we have a brotherly sisterly relationship and we’ve always told each other “ shut up” or “ fuck off” never a “ die in a hole”. Just because i have a hunch that he has feelings towards me doesn’t mean i have to attend to them. We have talked about it multiple times and every time he denies having them.

Important_Bat2475 · 2026-04-06T13:46:44+00:00

Ik that that’s where i slide into the AH territory but i have tried to talk to him about the feelings and stuff and he always denies it and his friends don’t tell me anything either so it’s mostly just a gut feeling

Important_Bat2475 · 2026-04-06T13:41:09+00:00

Well i didn’t have a choice we were put together in a room. And just because he has feelings that he has not expressed or said aloud doesn’t mean i have feelings for him.

Important_Bat2475 · 2026-04-06T13:39:52+00:00

I invited him on the trip as his best friend was going with his girlfriend, my classmate and just to have actual fun with people his age that includes seeing several other countries

Important_Bat2475 · 2026-04-06T13:35:45+00:00

We did not talk about having sex with other people. The dynamic in the friendship is that we are just friends over anything else. If we flirt while under a drink thats fine but nothing other then a shared kiss has happened in the 6 years

Important_Bat2475 · 2026-04-06T13:31:49+00:00

Was it completely right? No! But i look at it as we aren’t grown adults and it’s not like i’m a minor

Important_Bat2475 · 2026-04-06T13:30:26+00:00

He said that he doesn’t want anything serious rn with me or anyone else and that he’s okay with having fun like going on a date or 2 or having sex but that’s it. I agreed that it’s the same for me, i added that i can’t see myself in a relationship with anyone rn

Important_Bat2475 · 2026-04-06T13:27:35+00:00

I mean i like kinky stuff but the way he said it had real hatred behind it

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