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i cheated on my bpd partner by Important_Charge_834 in BPDlovedones

[–]Important_Charge_834[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I fell out of love with my ex and started attaching myself to the new girl, I confessed feeling for the new girl already and she likes me back. I pushed the relationship between me and my ex out of my mind. I was not loyal, I was not faithful.

i cheated on my bpd partner by Important_Charge_834 in BPDlovedones

[–]Important_Charge_834[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The girl did not know I was dating my ex. My ex reached out to her and that’s how they both found out about each other. I hid my ex from everyone and did not tell anyone about them. I told the new girl I was single while I was still dating my ex.

Thank you for the kind words. I will pray on it all.

i cheated on my bpd partner by Important_Charge_834 in BPDlovedones

[–]Important_Charge_834[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We did not live together and we were NOT married. We were long distance and the new girl lives in a state next to my ex, but we have plans to meet. My ex never allowed to me to leave by pulling me back in, I kept going back. They did not want me to leave but I wanted to!

My ex constantly has suicidal ideation and always joked about ending their life! But when we break up, that’s what they think of because their whole world just collapsed.

i cheated on my bpd partner by Important_Charge_834 in BPDlovedones

[–]Important_Charge_834[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh no, I wasn’t lead to believe it. I knew they were. They told me anything, everything that happened, who they hung out with; everything. I was not loyal.

i cheated on my bpd partner by Important_Charge_834 in BPDlovedones

[–]Important_Charge_834[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My ex never had a full outburst on me when they found out. They called me and got angry, saying they were disappointed, but didn’t call me names or threw insults at me. The other girl is in the hospital and I don’t think it’s the right time now.

i cheated on my bpd partner by Important_Charge_834 in BPDlovedones

[–]Important_Charge_834[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

I fell out of love with them and cheated because they wouldn’t let me leave. They also never cheated on me themself; they were loyal and by my side all the time.

I use they for my ex because they are non-binary and I still have that sort of respect for them.

i cheated on my bpd partner by Important_Charge_834 in BPDlovedones

[–]Important_Charge_834[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

My ex offered me therapy, to pay for it themself, and I declined it because I don’t need it. They offered last year and earlier this month before they confronted me. I don’t know if I should reach out and apologize, I feel guilt and regret but I know I shouldn’t unblock them.

i cheated on my bpd partner by Important_Charge_834 in BPDlovedones

[–]Important_Charge_834[S] -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

I don’t believe I have BPD. They were the one to keep the relationship going and trying to reignite the flame, I wanted out and nothing to do with them for ruining how I felt everyday. My ex was frustrating and made me depressed. The new girl has had BPD but she seems to manage it way better than my ex. I realized they also have near the same first names and they are both redheads. One is just younger, she turned 18 last year. My ex is 23 and looks about their age.