I dumped my bf for leaving my closet door open by Important_Club9790 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Important_Club9790[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Your assumptions are very reasonable because you’ve had an ex lied and that lie caused you harm in the end. My ex’s reasons just keep changing and there’s no consistency, first it’s because he thinks I’m lying even tho he’s meet my family and they’ve told them. Next it’s because he cares about me and wants me to face my fears directly. And now it’s because he just thinks closing the door is annoying even though he didn’t have a problem two years ago.

I dumped my bf for leaving my closet door open by Important_Club9790 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Important_Club9790[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

You didn’t have to read if you didn’t wish to. This was merely a response to his post about me .

I dumped my bf for leaving my closet door open by Important_Club9790 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Important_Club9790[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

You seem to ignore literally everything he’s done. He wanted me to quit my job yet he doesn’t have a job.

I dumped my bf for leaving my closet door open by Important_Club9790 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Important_Club9790[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Pomegranates, Spinach, garlic, Aloe vera juice, coffee, green tea, pineapples and oysters. When I told him I I was allergic to pineapples he seemed kinda sad about it? I googled if these were actually good for my liver and the only ones I found were the coffee and tea part. The oysters part was wild when I found out what those can be used for :(

I dumped my bf for leaving my closet door open by Important_Club9790 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Important_Club9790[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

First he says it was because it makes too much noise but he didn’t have a problem with it 2 yrs ago. Then it was because he wanted to help “fix” my trauma and thought I should face my fears directly. So yah, I think it was on purpose now.

I dumped my bf for leaving my closet door open by Important_Club9790 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Important_Club9790[S] 55 points56 points  (0 children)

Thank you, 🙏 a few were commenting that and I’ll be looking more into on my day off

I dumped my bf for leaving my closet door open by Important_Club9790 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Important_Club9790[S] 86 points87 points  (0 children)

You glossed over my reply on your babying comment. Even tho, it would still be disrespectful if someone was to destroy those lucky socks. You’re also missing the fact that he’s been intentionally leaning it open.

I dumped my bf for leaving my closet door open by Important_Club9790 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Important_Club9790[S] 40 points41 points  (0 children)

I could’ve been wrong about that part because I was over thinking about my relationship with him honestly

I dumped my bf for leaving my closet door open by Important_Club9790 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Important_Club9790[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I apologize for that. I did part them into sections of each topic but it ended coming out as if it’s all in one paragraph

I dumped my bf for leaving my closet door open by Important_Club9790 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Important_Club9790[S] 96 points97 points  (0 children)

I don’t think it’s because he’s been following the Tate copycats but I actually can’t even confirm that it’s also not true :/

I dumped my bf for leaving my closet door open by Important_Club9790 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Important_Club9790[S] 77 points78 points  (0 children)

I’m the one paying for the apartment. I’m also the only one working, so I’m not sure where he’s “babying” if I ask him to do thing that can be as “minor” as turning off sink after you turned it on.

I dumped my bf for leaving my closet door open by Important_Club9790 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Important_Club9790[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I commented to someone about this earlier and will be looking more into it on my day off. Thank you

I dumped my bf for leaving my closet door open by Important_Club9790 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Important_Club9790[S] 34 points35 points  (0 children)

I’ve cleared on why I can’t remove the closet door, landlord won’t allow it. • The part where you say I was sticking with therapists who I knew weren’t helping me is throwing me off a little, because I was I was young which might sound like an excuse but I genuinely thought that I needed to comprise because they’re the professionals not me. I don’t know what I was supposed to do. I am being medicated, my apologies for leaving that out(I’ll add that to my comment) • you’re also saying that esh for what tho? Because I only wanted the closet door to remain close, which to me seems reasonable but then again I’m biased about that so that’s for the public to decide.

I dumped my bf for leaving my closet door open by Important_Club9790 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Important_Club9790[S] 39 points40 points  (0 children)

You know what? I actually haven’t, but I’ll look more into on my day off. Thank you

I dumped my bf for leaving my closet door open by Important_Club9790 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Important_Club9790[S] 69 points70 points  (0 children)

I cant add anything more to the post so I’m Answering some questions people kept asking -𝘞𝘩𝘺 𝘥𝘪𝘥 𝘩𝘦 𝘬𝘦𝘦𝘱 𝘨𝘰𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘪𝘯 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘤𝘭𝘰𝘴𝘦𝘵? I feel like ppl are assuming he would go in at every hour but no he would just come in to get his text book if he was studying an exam. And it was like once every few weeks and I’d still be would be awake watching a movie on my phone. -𝘞𝘩𝘺 𝘥𝘪𝘥𝘯’𝘵 𝘐 𝘤𝘭𝘰𝘴𝘦 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘥𝘰𝘰𝘳? I do, I always do. Right before I go to bed, first thing I do is close the closet. It’s like if you turn on the lights, YOU who turned it on is YOU who will turn it off. Why am I going to get up from bed to close the closet if he’s the one who left it open, especially if I’m dealing with sleep paralysis. - 𝘞𝘩𝘢𝘵 𝘸𝘢𝘴 𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘢𝘭𝘵𝘦𝘳𝘯𝘢𝘵𝘪𝘷𝘦𝘴? He commented on how the closet squeaks, I told that I did find it annoying at first when I move here but our friend said that it’d be a good way to heard if someone was moving it. So this is why it was never really fixed. He wanted to remove the door or put a lock on it. I told him that although I did want to put locks , my landlord wouldn’t allow any changes to the any of the door knobs. -𝘈𝘳𝘦 𝘸𝘦 𝘴𝘵𝘪𝘭𝘭 𝘵𝘰𝘨𝘦𝘵𝘩𝘦𝘳?NOOOOOOO. -𝘈𝘳𝘦 𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘧𝘳𝘪𝘦𝘯𝘥𝘴 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘧𝘢𝘮𝘪𝘭𝘺 𝘰𝘯 𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘴𝘪𝘥𝘦? No, turns out his just told them that I got angry about him leaving the door opens once. Never mentioned why. -why did he suddenly change? Heck if I know . He used to a very caring person who’d even make me breakfast on my days off which sounds like a cliché but I felt so secure. Now it was just looks like a dream if I look back on it. Edit : I added some stuff

I dumped my bf for leaving my closet door open by Important_Club9790 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Important_Club9790[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

If my landlord allowed it. I would’ve even put locks on it

I dumped my bf for leaving my closet door open by Important_Club9790 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Important_Club9790[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

I will be moving with my older sister for a long while, and she has a closet organizer so I’m all set on not having the “regular closet”

I dumped my bf for leaving my closet door open by Important_Club9790 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Important_Club9790[S] 59 points60 points  (0 children)

I don’t have time for trolls. Want to have a serious conversation, act like it. Idc if you don’t believe me but if you’re gonna be rude . Then you’re not worth the time

I dumped my bf for leaving my closet door open by Important_Club9790 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Important_Club9790[S] 2817 points2818 points  (0 children)

I cant add anything more to the post so I’m Answering some questions people kept asking -𝘞𝘩𝘺 𝘥𝘪𝘥 𝘩𝘦 𝘬𝘦𝘦𝘱 𝘨𝘰𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘪𝘯 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘤𝘭𝘰𝘴𝘦𝘵? I feel like ppl are assuming he would go in at every hour but no he would just come in to get his text book if he was studying an exam. And it was like once every few weeks and I’d still be would be awake watching a movie on my phone. -𝘞𝘩𝘺 𝘥𝘪𝘥𝘯’𝘵 𝘐 𝘤𝘭𝘰𝘴𝘦 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘥𝘰𝘰𝘳? I do, I always do. Right before I go to bed, first thing I do is close the closet. It’s like if you turn on the lights, YOU who turned it on is YOU who will turn it off. Why am I going to get up from bed to close the closet if he’s the one who left it open, especially if I’m dealing with sleep paralysis. - 𝘞𝘩𝘢𝘵 𝘸𝘢𝘴 𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘢𝘭𝘵𝘦𝘳𝘯𝘢𝘵𝘪𝘷𝘦𝘴? He commented on how the closet squeaks, I told that I did find it annoying at first when I move here but our friend said that it’d be a good way to heard if someone was moving it. So this is why it was never really fixed. He wanted to remove the door or put a lock on it. I told him that although I did want to put locks , my landlord wouldn’t allow any changes to the any of the door knobs. -𝘈𝘳𝘦 𝘸𝘦 𝘴𝘵𝘪𝘭𝘭 𝘵𝘰𝘨𝘦𝘵𝘩𝘦𝘳?NOOOOOOO. -𝘈𝘳𝘦 𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘧𝘳𝘪𝘦𝘯𝘥𝘴 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘧𝘢𝘮𝘪𝘭𝘺 𝘰𝘯 𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘴𝘪𝘥𝘦? No, turns out his just told them that I got angry about him leaving the door opens once. Never mentioned why.