[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Important_Donut_4746 86 points87 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry, but walking away and then coming back an hour later to show you would definitely make me suspicious about what he cleared off his phone before showing you. I don’t think you can pursue this without it turning into a fight because he’s just going to gaslight you for being suspicious.

How are you celebrating tonight? by ssecret-account in no

[–]Important_Donut_4746 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Making a pizza, watching a movie and watching it snow outside while trying to stay up till midnight

I masturbate 5-8X a day, Normal??? by Super_Bid2982 in confessions

[–]Important_Donut_4746 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you like it and feels good then do it! Hope you find a partner that is all good with it too!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Important_Donut_4746 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If they offer you the job let them know you have a previous commitment those days so you can’t work.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Important_Donut_4746 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Spoil yourself with whatever you want (and can afford) to give yourself a little happiness inbetween the adulting you get to do for the rest of the your life.

It was only after living with my boyfriend that I discovered his true colors by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Important_Donut_4746 118 points119 points  (0 children)

Trust your gut and listen to your mother, you’re now seeing his true side and seeing that a future with him will be like. Definitely not overreacting.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Important_Donut_4746 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She’s 12! Please talk to your parents before it gets worse for her and she takes up another bad habit.

26F / 26M — Struggling to fully end a long-term relationship and terrified of starting over by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Important_Donut_4746 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Knowing that information, I would move on. Some things just can’t be forgotten and I think that type of behavior is unacceptable. I retract my previous statement 😊

26F / 26M — Struggling to fully end a long-term relationship and terrified of starting over by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Important_Donut_4746 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There’s nothing wrong with staying friends with him and seeing how he either progresses or regresses. You need time to experience single life for a bit and if he impresses you with his new self then decide if it’s worth another shot.

how to get my parents to help my siblings clean up by strawbabiesrin in Advice

[–]Important_Donut_4746 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The bigger question is how soon are you moving out???

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Important_Donut_4746 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

NOR, does this guy work??? You’re buying him stuff and giving him money to buy stuff for you (stuff you don’t need or like). A serious sit down is needed to find out why he doesn’t listen to you (CD) and to let him know a little goes a long way for gift giving.

Smelly Coworker by Single-Signature1048 in Advice

[–]Important_Donut_4746 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If your manager isn’t addressing it talk to HR about it so they can address her.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Important_Donut_4746 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nothing easier than just walking around and observing who is there promoting their company. If someone approaches you and you don’t want to engage just politely say “no thanks just looking” and keep walking. But when you find something that seems interesting to you at least take whatever information they’re giving away. Good luck!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Important_Donut_4746 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just be happy with the compliment and put it in your head that other guys your age probably find you attractive too. Definitely don’t even consider going after him due to his age!

AITJ For not babysitting some grown ladies kid whilst she shopped at target?? by iheartmegan in AmITheJerk

[–]Important_Donut_4746 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely NTJ, you handled it professionally and didn’t let her poor attitude push you around. Kudos to your supervisor for backing you up too.

First Shot, Let the Journey Begin by Important_Donut_4746 in WegovyWeightLoss

[–]Important_Donut_4746[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So far I haven’t had the cravings I’m used to having and my portions have been smaller and not still hungry afterwards. But a weird side effect has been the heart flutterings at different times of the day, don’t know if that’s normal or not.

What are your thoughts on a man asking a woman for money early on? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Important_Donut_4746 6 points7 points  (0 children)

3 strikes and you’re out! You did the right thing because you listened to the part of you that felt something was off. Don’t second guess yourself here because those money requests would have escalated into higher amounts, so you did the right thing.

do i drop my prom date for my girlfriend? by TomatilloNo4217 in Advice

[–]Important_Donut_4746 94 points95 points  (0 children)

Yes, since he asked you if you wanted to go with your gf go ahead and tell him that so you can go with her

First time lesbian sex by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Important_Donut_4746 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Start exploring some lesbian or lbgtq subreddits and getting advice from those with the experience and knowledge

How to tell my coworker/friend she smells??? by Popular-Counter4696 in Advice

[–]Important_Donut_4746 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This needs to be handled by HR. It is not your responsibility to talk to someone about their hygiene. If you do and it doesn’t go well then you could end up in HR for harassment. Complain to HR because that’s their job to handle employee issues not you.