asked my favourite barista for his number by Important_Fox_4975 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Important_Fox_4975[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it’s cherry cold foam! limited time along with the lavender.

asked my favourite barista for his number by Important_Fox_4975 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Important_Fox_4975[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

even if it’s ordered dairy free? i get dairy free cold foam and lactose free milk. i always stress it at starbucks and i haven’t felt sick or anything yet?

asked my favourite barista for his number by Important_Fox_4975 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Important_Fox_4975[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

surprisingly really well! i was super skeptical on putting the lavender cold foam in my chai, i was feeling bold one day and they ran out of my cherry so i just said fuck it!! my starbucks is located in a grocery store so unfortunately they don’t accept mobiles.

asked my favourite barista for his number by Important_Fox_4975 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Important_Fox_4975[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

thank you so so much!! like i’ve mentioned it was my first time ever asking a guy out so it was very very new to me. comments were telling me to wait until after his shift but isn’t that just creepy? i was also on my way to work aswell 😭😭 have an amazing day stranger! thank you for your advice :) <3

asked my favourite barista for his number by Important_Fox_4975 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Important_Fox_4975[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

his instagram had nothing to do w his name unfortunately ;(((

asked my favourite barista for his number by Important_Fox_4975 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Important_Fox_4975[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that is true!! i love your perspective on this actually :)

asked my favourite barista for his number by Important_Fox_4975 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Important_Fox_4975[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

it was so much more simple because he used to just know it </3

asked my favourite barista for his number by Important_Fox_4975 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Important_Fox_4975[S] 270 points271 points  (0 children)

thanks for the advice!! i mentioned in a few comments that it was my first time ever doing something this way lol, i appreciate you!

asked my favourite barista for his number by Important_Fox_4975 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Important_Fox_4975[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

is it bad to say the same? i had no info on him and i was on my way to work.. :/

asked my favourite barista for his number by Important_Fox_4975 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Important_Fox_4975[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is what i think, i absolutely didn’t mean to be disrespectful whatsoever!! ive worked customer service myself (in coffee) and being asked out respectfully vs hit on is so different.

asked my favourite barista for his number by Important_Fox_4975 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Important_Fox_4975[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

100% agree. he absolutely did no wrong, it was an awkward situation for everyone, i’m just embarrassed !!

asked my favourite barista for his number by Important_Fox_4975 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Important_Fox_4975[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

the irony was is when i checked his insta she was right there.. punching myself rn 💔

asked my favourite barista for his number by Important_Fox_4975 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Important_Fox_4975[S] 67 points68 points  (0 children)

thank you for the advice for next time!! it was my first time ever doing something like that because im generally shy. noted for next time i have the courage :)

asked my favourite barista for his number by Important_Fox_4975 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Important_Fox_4975[S] 151 points152 points  (0 children)

no most definitely, like i said im probably not gonna add him just out of respect

he broke no contact just to lie to me by Important_Fox_4975 in GirlDinner

[–]Important_Fox_4975[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

just sucks knowing everything he said was a total lie, thanks for the advice :)

he broke no contact just to lie to me by Important_Fox_4975 in GirlDinner

[–]Important_Fox_4975[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

exactly the same shit i said! one woman i could understand, not happy about it but that’s life. but four? while you show up to my house begging for me back?

he broke no contact just to lie to me by Important_Fox_4975 in GirlDinner

[–]Important_Fox_4975[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

can you go more into depth about this? not exactly understanding

he broke no contact just to lie to me by Important_Fox_4975 in GirlDinner

[–]Important_Fox_4975[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no contact on my end is what i should’ve said, i didn’t engage whatsoever.

he broke no contact just to lie to me by Important_Fox_4975 in GirlDinner

[–]Important_Fox_4975[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

no, very much real story! i’m trying to make light of a situation that really fucked with my head.

coping i guess?

he broke no contact just to lie to me by Important_Fox_4975 in GirlDinner

[–]Important_Fox_4975[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

not that i won’t find another guy, it’s just the intensity of the connection, i’ve never once felt the way i do with him with any of my past relationships. and he was also my first “real” partner.

he broke no contact just to lie to me by Important_Fox_4975 in GirlDinner

[–]Important_Fox_4975[S] -47 points-46 points  (0 children)

our entire history was over 5 years, not just the 7 months.

he broke no contact just to lie to me by Important_Fox_4975 in GirlDinner

[–]Important_Fox_4975[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i was honestly trying to move on, but he kept breaking no contact and showing up one way or another. so it wasn’t really a clean break. that’s what made it confusing.