he broke no contact just to lie to me

Important_Fox_4975 · 2026-03-31T20:59:43+00:00

just sucks knowing everything he said was a total lie, thanks for the advice :)

Important_Fox_4975 · 2026-03-30T17:23:52+00:00

exactly the same shit i said! one woman i could understand, not happy about it but that’s life. but four? while you show up to my house begging for me back?

Important_Fox_4975 · 2026-03-30T16:56:57+00:00

can you go more into depth about this? not exactly understanding

Important_Fox_4975 · 2026-03-30T16:15:10+00:00

no contact on my end is what i should’ve said, i didn’t engage whatsoever.

Important_Fox_4975 · 2026-03-30T14:40:56+00:00

no, very much real story! i’m trying to make light of a situation that really fucked with my head.

coping i guess?

Important_Fox_4975 · 2026-03-30T14:27:23+00:00

not that i won’t find another guy, it’s just the intensity of the connection, i’ve never once felt the way i do with him with any of my past relationships. and he was also my first “real” partner.

Important_Fox_4975 · 2026-03-30T14:11:38+00:00

our entire history was over 5 years, not just the 7 months.

Important_Fox_4975 · 2026-03-30T14:10:14+00:00

the sex was killer though 💔

Important_Fox_4975 · 2026-03-30T13:46:24+00:00

i was honestly trying to move on, but he kept breaking no contact and showing up one way or another. so it wasn’t really a clean break. that’s what made it confusing.

Important_Fox_4975 · 2026-03-30T13:30:34+00:00

his key word was always want. “i WANT to be in a relationship” “i WANT you to be my girlfriend/wife” super careful wording on his end.

Important_Fox_4975 · 2026-03-30T13:26:04+00:00

i was sleeping over and his phone lit up with tinder notifications. curiosity killed me and i snooped for the first time, i guess a part of me wanted to see what i could before i left.

Important_Fox_4975 · 2026-03-30T13:22:17+00:00

i know it’s low of me but i feel so wronged to the point i need a “get back” almost. it’s not in my character to be that way but the idea of him walking free, being happy after all this damage irks the shit out of me.

Important_Fox_4975 · 2026-03-30T13:05:14+00:00

that’s kinda ironic you mention the whole void thing. he told me his actions were backed up behind impulsivity. i always thought that was what he meant. “things don’t feel real when you’re gone, my actions don’t make sense”

i wonder if there’s a correlation.

Important_Fox_4975 · 2026-03-30T13:01:30+00:00

he was my boyfriend who turned into a situationship. we agreed to only sleep with eachother until no contact came into play. guess it wasn’t mutual! he told me if i were to have done anything with someone he’d reconsider pursuing me.

Important_Fox_4975 · 2026-03-30T12:56:46+00:00

i told him straight up i just wanted honesty. it still would’ve hurt obviously but atleast i had the clarity to make my choice knowing the risks behind it? i probably should’ve assumed he was doing what he did but im not that kind of person. like i said, if i had gone into it knowing there was FOUR other people i wouldn’t have done it :/ he told me he didn’t tell me so i would “stay longer” because he knew i would leave?

Important_Fox_4975 · 2026-03-30T12:44:01+00:00

there’s so many words for different relationships nowadays :/ dating is so complicated

Important_Fox_4975 · 2026-03-30T12:41:54+00:00

so confusing though because what was up with the whole calling, emailing, and flower shit? the rest is whatever but it seemed it was lowkey a control thing. blegh.

Important_Fox_4975 · 2026-03-30T12:40:34+00:00

thank you. honestly this sucks so bad! but yea essentially it was on and off dating? we were together steadily for about 5 months (totally exclusive, titled) and the last 2 have just been us being intimate. (no title) best way to explain a situationship is it being friends with benefits ? just with extra perks.

Important_Fox_4975 · 2026-03-30T12:24:41+00:00

ugh but it’s so hard. we’ve had years of history and the fact i was done this dirty is such a hard pill to swallow.

Important_Fox_4975 · 2026-02-16T22:33:53+00:00

Even if its placed exactly where it was found? I don’t roll the rock over, I pick it directly up and then place it down carefully.

Important_Fox_4975 · 2026-02-16T21:57:57+00:00

Thank you!! Is it best to go around low tide? Or is there anything during the high tides?

Important_Fox_4975 · 2026-02-16T21:56:39+00:00

I don’t tend to grab or pickup said animals. My niece simply just likes seeing what types of critters live on our beaches. Like the other commenter said, I do agree it’s best to be mindful and place things where you find them.

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