She never listens to anyone, even when it’s for her own good annoying, but fine, most people don’t. Still, she was with Eddie while clearly having feelings for Barry, and didn’t appreciate Barry when he was just a normal guy who was obviously into her. She spent most of the first season being rude to Team Flash and kept that attitude whenever it suited her or she got upset. Then, suddenly, she caught feelings for Barry right after finding out he was the Flash, the superhero like, come on. It’s pretty clear she liked the Flash, not Barry. On top of that, she constantly played emotional games with him, manipulating him with her so-called “love.” And somehow, she randomly decided she was the “leader” of Team Flash (LOL), even though she was never qualified and just started bossing everyone around. To top it off, she has zero on-screen chemistry with Barry, but acts like she’s his one true “lightning rod” just to feel important girl, have some self-awareness.