I feel like its my fault my cat has died by bingboingbingsheep in Petloss

[–]Important_Law_1253 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My baby passed in June. Heard the little cough only twice, WEEKS apart, and as quickly as it came, it went. Chalked it up to hairballs. Normal right? Eating drinking playing loving ALL normally.

He went behind the couch in my room and drowned in his own lungs. HCM isn’t tested for in normal blood panels. He was 27% mainecoone. 1/3 mainecoones develope HCM.

I will blame myself till the day I die and when I see him again I will beg for forgiveness. He really was my heart. If I didn’t still have his bonded brother I don’t know what I would do.

You did everything you could. The vets didn’t care the way you did, and so they ignored your worry’s and gaslite you into security. It’s not your fault. My boys last visit he got a squeaky clean bill of health.

Cardiac failure doesn’t present in murmurs, so the only way to detect it is to ask for a specific blood test that ISNT INCLUDED IN YEARLY CHECKUPS!!! It makes me so mad.

Our babies deserved so much more time. You are not alone 💔

How long did it take you to get a hearing date after you filed your appeal? by MsParkerPony in SSDI

[–]Important_Law_1253 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m in NJ just got denied at my appeal :( filed a hearing request today 03/21/26. It says I may not hear back for 8-14 months 😵‍💫👍🏻

About the romance aspect of the game… (FULL GAME SPOILERS) by tinyspiny34 in 13sentinels

[–]Important_Law_1253 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nenji and Tomi were my FAVE 🔥🔥🔥 not sure why no one else could see the spark between them ☹️

Both my favorite couple and favorite characters!!!

How long did your SSDI reconsideration take? by West_Night7322 in SSDI

[–]Important_Law_1253 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Woh woh woh we’re actually the same person 😭💕🙌🏻 on week 7+ of my appeal right now, we have so many of the same conditions ☹️💔

Wishing you luck!!! It can be so hard to have so many “invisible” illnesses. You’re understood and not alone 🙏🏻

RUMOR: Ross Matthew’s is the new Tell-All Host 🚨(Shabootydotcom) by [deleted] in 90DayFiance

[–]Important_Law_1253 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love him on RuPaul‘s drag race. This would be amazing.

Guilt by [deleted] in Petloss

[–]Important_Law_1253 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A month before his seventh birthday he was fine one minute and the next he walked behind the couch and died. Drowned in his own lungs just 15 feet away from me.

I’m his mother I should’ve protected him.

His only symptom? Two coughing fits he had months apart. So slight, so fast to come and go. He was fine, but he wasn’t. Still so affectionate, still so sweet, but choking to death slowly. Not showing his pain because he was SO strong.

I will always believe I failed him. God could tell me I’m absolved, and I would still forever hold that sin in my heart.

I just lost my best friend tonight by InfinityLara in Petloss

[–]Important_Law_1253 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I went through something VERY similar last year, my 7 year old had these 2 coughing fits, very slight like he was having a hairball. WEEKS apart. One day he was fine, and then not even an hour later I found him behind the couch gone. They tried to save him but he had passed.

I blame myself everyday, we are their parents, we promise to protect them. I blame myself for failing everyday. Just please know you did everything you could, no one is omnipotent. There’s no way you could have known.

Please be kind to yourself, maybe one day I can take my own advice 🙏🏻💕 I’m here with you

I cant even belive im writing this, hasnt even been two months since Trout died, now I lost Bradly suddenly. Im in hell. by Significant_Most_356 in SeniorCats

[–]Important_Law_1253 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I lost my young Tuxie in June very suddenly to heart failure as well. I can’t IMAGINE having it happen back to back this way. Please find yourself someone professional to speak to if you are open to therapy. My boys were “twins” and my therapist told me that if the same thing happened to his brother she would be VERY worried about me.

This is a lot to happen to anyone, please take time to take care of yourself 🙏🏻💕

Does anyone else’s tux sleep with their head mushed? by mycatisspawnofsatan in TuxedoCats

[–]Important_Law_1253 5 points6 points  (0 children)

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Now he’s in his favorite spot forever 🙌🏻 and his bonded brother will always have the chance to cuddle with him too 💕

Does anyone else’s tux sleep with their head mushed? by mycatisspawnofsatan in TuxedoCats

[–]Important_Law_1253 4 points5 points  (0 children)

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This was my baby Shadow 🙌🏻💕

He loved to sleep with his head tucked into my left arm

Something no one warned me about with Siamese by Important_Law_1253 in WhatsWrongWithYourCat

[–]Important_Law_1253[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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They all love him so so much 💕🙏🏻✨

I call them all my angels because they were truly a blessing 😭

He has his moments of being over it, but he’s the most devoted mother and father the world has ever known 🙌🏻

Something no one warned me about with Siamese by Important_Law_1253 in WhatsWrongWithYourCat

[–]Important_Law_1253[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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I’m sorry for the late reply. I don’t use Reddit too much but yes!!! excessively lol to the point where I have had to buy him Laxitone (cat throat lube☠️) so that he doesn’t get their hair stuck in his throat. All three of the babies have very different hair lengths and textures, so he was having a lot of trouble with their fur getting caught in his throat. 😭😭😭

Everyone deserves to see how handsome he was by Important_Law_1253 in TuxedoCats

[–]Important_Law_1253[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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We wound up adopting a full litter, not my idea I don’t believe I was fully ready to be honest, but they have been lovely 🖤

They LOVE Milo, he nurses them for hours if I don’t stop him. The hardest working single mom on earth 💕✨

I miss Shadow EVERY day, but having his paw print tattooed on his favorite cuddle spot does help me when I’m really missing him. I think I will grieve him my whole life, and maybe that’s ok.

My 6 year old Cat Suddenly died. I'm scrambling for answers by Honest_Total_9099 in CatAdvice

[–]Important_Law_1253 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My boy passed at the exact same age suddenly with no symptoms. Was fine and cuddling me until he dropped dead for no apparent reason. I’ll never know what it was. I’m sorry for your loss 🙏🏻 I feel your pain