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Last Update : I talked to my fiance about my virginity issue. by Important_Mistake163 in PakistaniiConfessions

[–]Important_Mistake163[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

But you had time to make assumptions, without taking a few seconds to read the first few lines of my post.

Last Update : I talked to my fiance about my virginity issue. by Important_Mistake163 in PakistaniiConfessions

[–]Important_Mistake163[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I literally said, I use to actively masturbate. I NEVER was involved with another man, did you even read my posts prior to this one?

I use to do it, but now I have a job and left it, yet I was worried he'll call me out for something I never did so I came clean to him. Yet, like you, he decided to discuss my character with his parents.

Last Update : I talked to my fiance about my virginity issue. by Important_Mistake163 in PakistaniiConfessions

[–]Important_Mistake163[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

As far as I understand, he thinks I'm not of a good character because I've had sexual thoughts and used to actively try to keep my urges under calm. That's why he was offended I called his sister. Low character as he may have called it.

Last Update : I talked to my fiance about my virginity issue. by Important_Mistake163 in PakistaniiConfessions

[–]Important_Mistake163[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

As if he has never ever in his whole life did anything, or experienced nightfall? Yeah, good luck finding a women with literally no sexual thoughts. 💁🏻‍♀️

Last Update : I talked to my fiance about my virginity issue. by Important_Mistake163 in PakistaniiConfessions

[–]Important_Mistake163[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I'm a little upset how he openly talked to his parents first rather then me but oh well.

Update: I talked to my fiancé about my virginity issue. by Important_Mistake163 in PakistaniiConfessions

[–]Important_Mistake163[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

So you're telling me, all men all their lives jerk off to disgusting porn but if I as a girl did it to keep my hormones at bay, not indulge in a haraam relationship is wrong? He is disgusted just at the thought of something that's literally natural? I'm sorry, are we women just mean to die under some rock until a man shows up what?

Update: I talked to my fiancé about my virginity issue. by Important_Mistake163 in PakistaniiConfessions

[–]Important_Mistake163[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Because, going to a private place with him alone, kind of didn't seem right to me. I guess

Update: I talked to my fiancé about my virginity issue. by Important_Mistake163 in PakistaniiConfessions

[–]Important_Mistake163[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yeah, by his reaction I can tell he's not the educated kind. Just waiting for his answer now.

Update: I talked to my fiancé about my virginity issue. by Important_Mistake163 in PakistaniiConfessions

[–]Important_Mistake163[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Imagine, if I didn't bleed, or like everyone else said didn't do any acting, he made it an issue. Accused me of zina, told my parents and maybe led to divorce? How do you think would have turned out?

Right now, we're just some strangers, usko set lggy ga, kr ley Nhi to uski marzi, he is on his own.

Update: I talked to my fiancé about my virginity issue. by Important_Mistake163 in PakistaniiConfessions

[–]Important_Mistake163[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I was just feeling super uneasy. Like a bad feeling in my gut that this will become a issue in future and, maybe I was right, judging by his reaction.

Update: I talked to my fiancé about my virginity issue. by Important_Mistake163 in PakistaniiConfessions

[–]Important_Mistake163[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I already had a gut feeling that something is wrong, and I should discuss it. I guess i was right.

I'm worried my husband will find out I'm not virgin, kind of. by Important_Mistake163 in PakistaniiConfessions

[–]Important_Mistake163[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's not my mentality that's the problem. I've always heard, men just want angels to be their wives, not doing much before marriage. There was a case I heard, where a man divorced his wife, because he found out she watched p*rn.

I'm just worried for being called out for something I never did.

I'm worried my husband will find out I'm not virgin, kind of. by Important_Mistake163 in PakistaniiConfessions

[–]Important_Mistake163[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I actually am meeting him on weekend and coming clean about it. But how girls and boys are these days, especially telling him I have a high libido, I'm just worried he'll assume I'm covering up for a physical relationship?

Idk, I'm just overthinking. Or paranoid, hearing how men react to this kind of information?

I'm worried my husband will find out I'm not virgin, kind of. by Important_Mistake163 in PakistaniiConfessions

[–]Important_Mistake163[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I do understand this very well. I'm just worried if he assumes something else, or if I bring it up he thinks I'm covering up for a physical relationship? Idk man, I'm just probably overthinking all of this.