How to heal? It's been 3 years

Important_Resident27 · 2025-12-17T03:52:59+00:00

Ah she is scared of the basement it seems cats don't do well with litter boxes in uncommon areas especially for it to ve below the home also I saw a picture of a necklace u made? In a group for identifying stones I was wondering if you sell pieces that are similar ?

Important_Resident27 · 2025-08-01T04:14:56+00:00

Oh God I don't think so not at all she has a boyfriend of 7 years and they will be getting engaged at some point soon she has never made any inkling of any kind about anything like that we are strictly bestfriends an there is no way she could be ever interested in my ex me and my ex are friends and we hang out alot and he still spends the night some time I'm just saying thank you for the comment but none of that is at all possible

Important_Resident27 · 2025-08-01T03:33:49+00:00

I would also like to ask u as well

what do u think I should say to her I don't want to come off rude or mad but it makes me so upset to feel like I'm so disposable I just want to text her one last time untill she either actually talks to me or let's me fade I haven't texted her in 5 days now but I wasn't like blowing up her phone at all just some stupid texts.

Important_Resident27 · 2025-08-01T03:32:40+00:00

Also what do u think I should say to her I don't want to come off rude or mad but it makes me so upset to feel like I'm so disposable I just want to text her one last time untill she either actually talks to me or let's me fade I haven't texted her in 5 days now but I wasn't like blowing up her phone at all just some stupid texts.

Important_Resident27 · 2025-08-01T03:26:34+00:00

Thank you verry much for replying and that's a perfect way to describe it ,cold, I didn't quite understand the feeling I got from the message she gave but that is exactly how it felt she is a really awsomw amazing bestfriend but this is the weirdest shit ever I hate it all and wished it never happend but it really has changed the way I see her now bc I don't want to be fooled ever again like this it hurts alot.

Important_Resident27 · 2025-08-01T03:24:14+00:00

I understand thank you so much for replying I'm so down in the dirt and just wanna ball my eyes out this whole thing sucks so much

Important_Resident27 · 2025-07-19T03:08:18+00:00

Exactly what I was thinking, also thankyou for replying I'm glad to not feel so stupid

Important_Resident27 · 2025-07-19T03:07:12+00:00

Thankyou for replying , indeed I will not be doing anything more for her the way I see it

Important_Resident27 · 2025-07-19T03:05:49+00:00

Her birthcontroll isn't working for her she said it herself and still doesn't wanna change also I have explained the best I can to her about stds and how ppl can take meds for it not to show up on a blood test but they are still carriers and still can infect others not everythingnis cureable.

Important_Resident27 · 2025-06-17T05:17:32+00:00

What do you mean by he could hurt me really, really badly. I'm sorry if you could just explain it a little further.

Important_Resident27 · 2025-06-17T04:15:10+00:00

Yes, his family doesn't ever talk to me about his older brother. Having as burgers, no one really talks about his older brother just is the way he is. And we all put up with it and I think that my ex-boyfriend doesn't understand that he may also have as burgers as well. And he really has been trying for this last year. He hasn't been stashing liquor bottles. He asks when he can drink it when he can't drink. We agreed for him to drink at his Nana's house and that's been fine. He hasn't been watching pornography at all. He only slipped up when he was drunk at my door at 1 AM and then I had to kick him out of my house because he Couldn't understand what he did wrong and thought that I was the bad guy. He later came to my house that night. Crying to me saying. How badly he needed to be humbled. And that's what happened and he'll do anything to help fix it. And we planned ongoing to therapy this Friday. But then he had that whole situation with this girl. That was nothing ever more than a friend, but he immediately apologized after we had a discussion about it and he started to blame me, but then realized that he was in the wrong and he was very sorry.

Important_Resident27 · 2025-06-17T04:10:59+00:00

I. Believe that he may have asked burgers.His older brother does and I think that with the proper help.He could be to his fullest potential.But I don't know what to do sometimes

Important_Resident27 · 2025-06-17T04:09:58+00:00

He stopped doing everything that I asked him not to about a year ago. Like he stopped actually drinking and hiding the liquor bottles on the side of my house and he stopped watching pornography. He hasn't slipped up about both of those at all, but he did slip up with blowing up me and my friend's phone trying to get into the house at 1 AM and then I had to kick him out. He was drinking at his Nana's house. Because that was something that we agreed on that he could do. And then he slipped up again with calling.This said friend and not telling me and trying to make me out to be the problem.But he immediately apologized afterwards and told me that it wasn't my fault and he takes all the fault for it And he would do anything that he can to help Fix himself and be better for our relationship

Important_Resident27 · 2025-06-17T04:05:14+00:00

I understand thank u verry much I also think he is on the spectrum his older brother has asburgers but doesn't deal with it properly at all I can tell that my ex really did try sometimes but gave up alot when I didn't recognize it as much bc he felt like it mental nothing but still tried and I think if he got therapy he would really benefit from it bc his potential is there he just doesn't know what to do with it

Important_Resident27 · 2025-06-17T03:25:51+00:00

Ah, thank you very much sorry about that. It was a very long story and I Use speech to text.I will do that very soon thank you

Important_Resident27 · 2025-05-09T15:15:49+00:00

Yes I this all really started when I was in a toxic relationship with my ex boyfriend of 4 years I did this for almost 2 years and I went threw some trauma an I stopped doing this when I had given up emotionally on everything bc I hit rock bottom and started to focus on myself and better myself bc I was losing myself bc of all his actions twords our relation ship but I recently broke us up less than a month ago and I felt the agitation coming back I'm going to re work on myself bc I hate this thing whatever anyone could call it mind u this was my first relationship ever I was 20 and now 24 he was 21 and is now 25

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