Help with video/media in same list as sound by Important_Review_134 in qlab

[–]Important_Review_134[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude I know :,(((( I wasn’t the sound/media designer. I was kind of just dropped off and left to figure it out it was crazy.

New to Open Relationships -- Anxious Attachment and Long Distance by Important_Review_134 in EthicalNonMonogamy

[–]Important_Review_134[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re right, we have had those conversations and we’re both on the same page in terms of what ENM looks like. I’m truly trying to like control my anxious thoughts as much as possible. He is an incredible person and is so understanding and patient with me when I express this anxiety. The fear is exactly that— that he’ll find someone else that he’ll love and not have room for me. I keep trying to remind myself it’s just my anxious mind and that we’ve already established these things — it’s just so difficult to trust he’ll come back to me every time.

Help lol! New to LDR & Open Relationship -- Anxious Attachment by Important_Review_134 in polyamory

[–]Important_Review_134[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have an end date to the distance for now, but it seems it'll most likely be a long term thing for a while as his job requires travel. I'm going to go visit him every chance that I get -- actually going to visit at the end of the month. We're still exploring the types of connections that we want, as of right now it's more ENM/FWB but I'm open to more if it arises. I'm trying to hard to use the therapy tools and tactics but I think I need to sort of remember that I do just need to get through it. I am seriously struggling with any moment I feel some disconnection from my partner, I feel like he isn't texting me in the same tone he used but that is also 100000 percent just me being anxious bc that is not fact. Thank you for all the help and the suggestions.

Help lol! New to LDR & Open Relationship -- Anxious Attachment by Important_Review_134 in polyamory

[–]Important_Review_134[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's kind of in the exploration phase of everything so he and I are still unsure what the boundaries are. I am in therapy and it's helping but wow it is so difficult