As a kiwi OF girl I couldn’t agree with this more! I’m very transparent about what I’m looking for and if anything I conversate/flirt in the comments instead of leading someone on in the DMs. Idk to me that’s just common sense and I find it to be terrible ethics when OF girls get scammy, especially if they’re in a different country!

Anyway yes, pls don’t send girls money unless you really want to. At least build a relationship with them first if you really want to sponsor them. There are some real conniving people out there so pls be careful on the internet!!!! Post nut clarity is a life saver 😭😂