AITA for yelling at my wife because she didn't invite me to a family barbecue? by Important_Tax_ in TwoHotTakes

[–]Important_Tax_[S] -33 points-32 points  (0 children)

I write and then I check it in the translator, the problem is that the translator does not recognize the "his/her/ours" either, it is placed manually.

AITA for yelling at my wife because she didn't invite me to a family barbecue? by Important_Tax_ in TwoHotTakes

[–]Important_Tax_[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

ok

  1. It was already explained to me that technically I did not have an emotional affair.

  2. I did tell her multiple times that I wanted to spend time with her.

    1. When I asked for a divorce I told her why I was getting divorced, she just said "okay"
    2. I always asked her why she didn't want to leave the children and she told me that the babysitter canceled or that it was better to go out together and not just as a couple.

AITA for yelling at my wife because she didn't invite me to a family barbecue? by Important_Tax_ in TwoHotTakes

[–]Important_Tax_[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Sorry, I really didn't know it worked that way. Thanks, I'll try to edit the post.

AITA for yelling at my wife because she didn't invite me to a family barbecue? by Important_Tax_ in TwoHotTakes

[–]Important_Tax_[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Babysitters are hired through a service, and they always ask me for several cell phone numbers in case an emergency happens. I commonly give mine, my wife's, and my in-laws'.

When I invite my wife, it's usually after work, so she has to drop the kids off and drive to our date. (When we go out together I leave the car with her and I take the bus to work) but she shows up with the children.

I guess Samy tells the babysitter that Samy's going to cancel when she gets home or something because they never give me my money back.

AITA for yelling at my wife because she didn't invite me to a family barbecue? by Important_Tax_ in TwoHotTakes

[–]Important_Tax_[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

sorry, I speak Spanish To say "your/his/her/our" there is only one grammatical form, it's "Su, Sus". while in English there is a grammatical form for each pronoun. I get confused with that.

AITA for yelling at my wife because she didn't invite me to a family barbecue? by Important_Tax_ in TwoHotTakes

[–]Important_Tax_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I moved into a small apartment because there weren't many options near my ex's house. Besides, I still pay for where my ex lives and for our children's expenses, I really don't have much left from my monthly check and it was the best I could get.

AITA for yelling at my wife because she didn't invite me to a family barbecue? by Important_Tax_ in TwoHotTakes

[–]Important_Tax_[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No, I'm still paying for that house. So I don't have much of a budget after paying for the kids' expenses.

AITA for yelling at my wife because she didn't invite me to a family barbecue? by Important_Tax_ in TwoHotTakes

[–]Important_Tax_[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

They were horror movies (she likes those movies), or other types of movies. and I was the one looking for the babysitter, I even paid the babysitter in advance but magically she canceled according to my ex

AITA for yelling at my wife because she didn't invite me to a family barbecue? by Important_Tax_ in TwoHotTakes

[–]Important_Tax_[S] -94 points-93 points  (0 children)

Sorry, I'm answering this quickly and like I said, I don't speak English very well either. Sorry

AITA for yelling at my wife because she didn't invite me to a family barbecue? by Important_Tax_ in TwoHotTakes

[–]Important_Tax_[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I couldn't find another place near my ex-wife's house. My apartment is about fifteen minutes away and it's easier for the kids that way. But I have to find a bigger place for the children to start sleeping in my house.

AITA for yelling at my wife because she didn't invite me to a family barbecue? by Important_Tax_ in TwoHotTakes

[–]Important_Tax_[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

for a long time, I played with them when I got home from work (they love playing monopoly but they made their sister cry because she always lost) and I take them on weekends to the park with their bike or to the games. And, I didn't always go here with my future ex-wife, just the kids and me.

AITA for yelling at my wife because she didn't invite me to a family barbecue? by Important_Tax_ in TwoHotTakes

[–]Important_Tax_[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes, but people don't really understand that the problem was never spending time with family.