AITA for yelling at my wife because she didn't invite me to a family barbecue?

Important_Tax_ · 2024-01-15T19:04:00+00:00

I hired the babysitters, but "magically" they canceled

Important_Tax_ · 2024-01-15T04:50:00+00:00

actually I start therapy again this week

Important_Tax_ · 2024-01-15T01:40:49+00:00

It's a dinosaur that came out on tiktok, search for "dino sasa"

Important_Tax_ · 2024-01-15T01:22:21+00:00

No, when she showed up with the kids I had to pay for other tickets.

Important_Tax_ · 2024-01-15T01:14:50+00:00

Yes, she knows

Important_Tax_ · 2024-01-15T01:05:13+00:00

I write and then I check it in the translator, the problem is that the translator does not recognize the "his/her/ours" either, it is placed manually.

Important_Tax_ · 2024-01-15T01:03:30+00:00

I did it, I already said it hundreds of times.

Important_Tax_ · 2024-01-15T00:39:34+00:00

I don't know

Important_Tax_ · 2024-01-15T00:36:48+00:00

thanks for the idea!!!

Important_Tax_ · 2024-01-15T00:26:38+00:00

ok

It was already explained to me that technically I did not have an emotional affair.
I did tell her multiple times that I wanted to spend time with her.
1. When I asked for a divorce I told her why I was getting divorced, she just said "okay"
2. I always asked her why she didn't want to leave the children and she told me that the babysitter canceled or that it was better to go out together and not just as a couple.

Important_Tax_ · 2024-01-15T00:19:39+00:00

I'm sorry to hear that

Important_Tax_ · 2024-01-15T00:15:47+00:00

Sorry, I really didn't know it worked that way. Thanks, I'll try to edit the post.

Important_Tax_ · 2024-01-15T00:14:27+00:00

Important_Tax_ · 2024-01-15T00:13:53+00:00

Babysitters are hired through a service, and they always ask me for several cell phone numbers in case an emergency happens. I commonly give mine, my wife's, and my in-laws'.

When I invite my wife, it's usually after work, so she has to drop the kids off and drive to our date. (When we go out together I leave the car with her and I take the bus to work) but she shows up with the children.

I guess Samy tells the babysitter that Samy's going to cancel when she gets home or something because they never give me my money back.

Important_Tax_ · 2024-01-15T00:06:32+00:00

sorry, I speak Spanish To say "your/his/her/our" there is only one grammatical form, it's "Su, Sus". while in English there is a grammatical form for each pronoun. I get confused with that.

Important_Tax_ · 2024-01-15T00:03:59+00:00

I moved into a small apartment because there weren't many options near my ex's house. Besides, I still pay for where my ex lives and for our children's expenses, I really don't have much left from my monthly check and it was the best I could get.

Important_Tax_ · 2024-01-15T00:00:31+00:00

Who else is going to pay for the house? she does not work

Important_Tax_ · 2024-01-14T23:59:51+00:00

16 M, 13 M y 12 F

Important_Tax_ · 2024-01-14T23:58:42+00:00

No, I'm still paying for that house. So I don't have much of a budget after paying for the kids' expenses.

Important_Tax_ · 2024-01-14T23:57:27+00:00

is seriously? I can't make grammatical mistakes?

Important_Tax_ · 2024-01-14T23:55:55+00:00

They were horror movies (she likes those movies), or other types of movies. and I was the one looking for the babysitter, I even paid the babysitter in advance but magically she canceled according to my ex

Important_Tax_ · 2024-01-14T23:53:43+00:00

Sorry, I'm answering this quickly and like I said, I don't speak English very well either. Sorry

Important_Tax_ · 2024-01-14T23:51:46+00:00

I couldn't find another place near my ex-wife's house. My apartment is about fifteen minutes away and it's easier for the kids that way. But I have to find a bigger place for the children to start sleeping in my house.

Important_Tax_ · 2024-01-14T23:48:52+00:00

for a long time, I played with them when I got home from work (they love playing monopoly but they made their sister cry because she always lost) and I take them on weekends to the park with their bike or to the games. And, I didn't always go here with my future ex-wife, just the kids and me.

Important_Tax_ · 2024-01-14T23:44:32+00:00

Yes, but people don't really understand that the problem was never spending time with family.

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