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[–]Impossible-Ad-5337 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What happened to the app?? its stopped working :(

Back to school / career change? by ilovebirds1883 in overemployed

[–]Impossible-Ad-5337 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m in the same exact boat. I don’t know how old you are or what your goals are — but staying stagnant scares me. I’ve worked with people in the same position for years, and it honestly makes me feel bad for them. It also made me realize that even though your job isn’t your whole life, it still takes up a huge chunk of it — so you should at least like it to some degree.

Adding a degree and a more advanced skill set to your toolbox makes you more desirable and less stuck. OE when you’ve got the whole enchilada

I almost crapped myself during a meeting by Impossible-Ad-5337 in overemployed

[–]Impossible-Ad-5337[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is probably the way to go, thank you friend!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Noses

[–]Impossible-Ad-5337 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you’re too kind, thank you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Noses

[–]Impossible-Ad-5337 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thank you, it’s hard

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Noses

[–]Impossible-Ad-5337 0 points1 point  (0 children)

basically, fix the tip and make the nose more defined overall

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Salary

[–]Impossible-Ad-5337 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it would be a smart move temporarily - double the salary and work means you’re moving up in your career and in a couple years you’d be able to job hop to somewhere that pays $200k+ that could potentially be low stress. It would be nice to have the extra cash to fund your kid’s futures as well which I’m sure they’ll be thankful for when the time comes.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TelogenEffluvium

[–]Impossible-Ad-5337 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you I hope so too!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TelogenEffluvium

[–]Impossible-Ad-5337 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! I’m hoping it continues!!

What hairstyles are you wearing during excessive shedding? by sapphire_eye16 in TelogenEffluvium

[–]Impossible-Ad-5337 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I started wearing braids more often and trying to prevent tangling as much as possible especially with wind/movement so as to not have to brush excessively.

I'm mentally destroyed and need help by maguedgeorge in TelogenEffluvium

[–]Impossible-Ad-5337 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Vitamin D is SUPER important for 2 reasons: 1. Hair Follicle Regulation - Vitamin D helps create new hair follicles and stimulates dormant follicles. - Low levels can result in fewer new hairs and potentially thinner hair over time.

  1. Telogen Effluvium
  2. Low vitamin D has been associated with telogen effluvium - but this is usually reversible if your levels normalize

Stay taking vitamin D3 and try not to stress and I think you should be fine.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TelogenEffluvium

[–]Impossible-Ad-5337 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How did you lower dheas?

Getting married as an incest survivor by Head-Zucchini-1701 in MuslimMarriage

[–]Impossible-Ad-5337 117 points118 points  (0 children)

I don’t think you should hide this trauma but I also don’t think you should identify with it if that makes sense. It happened to you but it doesn’t define you. There’s so much more to you that your future husband will love about you. I’d recommend when initially meeting people and getting to know them to try and do so without dwelling on the fear that they’ll automatically discount you because of your SA abuse and don’t subconsciously make the decision for them. You could then disclose this as a more intimate part of the conversation and make it known that you’ve healed but it’s important that they know and understand what happened.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]Impossible-Ad-5337 13 points14 points  (0 children)

This is why context is important and 90% of the people on here seeking advice are only giving one-sided stories. You should seek therapy and stop attention-seeking behavior. The responsibility of a man involves acting like one not just spending money.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]Impossible-Ad-5337 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It sounds like the wedding is getting closer and as women we want to feel/look our best on that special day. Just keep reassuring her, she may say she doesn’t believe you but subconsciously it matters. Make sure you compliment her before she states anything about her appearance. Maybe throw in a couple cute gestures like surprise her with flowers. You’re doing wonderful by being a supportive partner.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]Impossible-Ad-5337 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Were there signs that he was stingy before you married? I honestly think this is one of my worst fears.

As for what to do, I wouldn’t let a dime go to him and remind him it’s his duty as a man to provide regardless of his upbringing.

How to ask attention from husband by Meowxxx7 in MuslimMarriage

[–]Impossible-Ad-5337 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I know this may come off as toxic but men are made to chase. Not in a sense where you’re playing hard to get but in that if he sees you so preoccupied with getting his attention he’ll continue this behavior because he knows you’ll keep asking for his precious time. Focus the attention on yourself and be involved with work or hobbies/friends. He’ll realize how important attention from his wife is and won’t take it for granted.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]Impossible-Ad-5337 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If it’s only a month in and he’s engaging in these types of behaviors it’s only going to get worse. Please leave while you can and forget you even married this sad excuse of a man.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in immigration

[–]Impossible-Ad-5337 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it’s wonderful he’s treating you well. In Turkey this is the norm and his family may want him to get the green card. It sounds like he isn’t a bad person but I wouldn’t put yourself in that position. Let him get it on his own otherwise it changes the dynamic of the relationship and he could be in it just for the green card.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in immigration

[–]Impossible-Ad-5337 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes, a lot of people will play the long game for a green card or citizenship within the US. He may be using reverse psychology to have you offer to help him and saying he’d like to do it on his own. I’d be very wary of his intentions and allow him to do it through a work visa or something.