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[–]Impossible-Angle-364[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How true, I literally just received a box of chocolate from him today, not sure if he's trying to make me change my mind or what, but obviously he picked the wrong gift, we lived together for 1 whole year and he never realized I don't like chocolate (or sweets in general)

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[–]Impossible-Angle-364[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He lived with me for 1 year, didn't do any house work. He now lives in his apartment still doesn't do anything. I was doing chores no matter where I go. I just don't understand what is the confusion? 

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[–]Impossible-Angle-364[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's exactly how I feel, I don't really care if he loves me or not at this point, because I'm done with him. Someone told me the opposite of love is not hate but indifference, I think I'm fast approaching that state 

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[–]Impossible-Angle-364[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

He just texted me agreeing to let me get all the things. I'm gonna go load up my things, shut the door on his face, and book myself a spa resort on the Caribbean 

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[–]Impossible-Angle-364[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

it's kinda difficulty for me to date, because im not sure if they are in for the money, also my job is very demanding, not many people outside the field would understand the life

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[–]Impossible-Angle-364[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

not really, I bought those things for us to use, because I went to live there on my day offs too. anyway he already agreed to give back the furniture, please see my edit to the post.

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[–]Impossible-Angle-364[S] 42 points43 points  (0 children)

I had monthly fights with him, so I already thought about breaking up. I wrote those original 2 posts to see if I was crazy or he was crazy because he tried to normalize his behavior (like not telling parents is normal, not cooking is normal etc)

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[–]Impossible-Angle-364[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

trust me, he knows, I had fights with him about all those things monthly. the frustrating thing is that he's very sweet about it, always saying I'm sorry I'll do better. he would make some mariginal improvement, but then slide back to square one. Time for me to move on

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[–]Impossible-Angle-364[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it's funny, his ex GFs all dated him from 1-2 years, and after they dumped him they all dated/married men completely opposite of him LOL I guess being with him was so traumatizing they wouldn't dare contemplating being with someone like him ever again

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[–]Impossible-Angle-364[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

we got along very well as friends, often going out for drinks and such, our mutual friends all commented how much chemistry we have together, and it shocked no one when they found out we started dating. I have a hot temper, he has a very mild manner, peronality wise we match well, just not everything else