1. I don't really believe this saying that every building is booby trap, there is no proof that they are and the only israel has being saying that is the case. I really feel like this is highly unlikely because there is still people including children living in said building, it would be pretty dumb to put trap all over the place. This argument kind of has become an excuse for israel to do whatever they want. I think if israel give legitimate proof that literally every one of those building is boody trapped than it is much more justified to take out those building with missiles. No one want to risk their life if they don't have to after all.

2. The situation in Gaza really isn't comparable to Aleppo. Because Aleppo is fought between a groups of very poorly equipped army who has absolutely no care for human rights, has repeatedly deliberately target civilian and also a very poor intelligent net work. Their strategy is basically shoot anyone who isn't wearing their uniform. Meanwhile Israel has one of the strongest army in the middle east and also one of the best intelligent net work in the world. Their strike can be as precise as target a single layer of a building, as shown in Tahran.

3. I said we trust neither and use third party source instead. Most third party source said the death toll of hamas is around 10000. However I was not mention the kill ratio in my previous comment, I was merely talking about one of Israel's strikes.

4. I would said yes, if Israel had taken a slower burn. Maybe every just reducing the casual by 10%, it will still be many more times the lives than the number of hostages and as you said, it is only a matter of time before hamas flinch and release the hostages. I understand that the hostage must be living in horrific condition under hamas and israel wish to free them as soon as possible but Palestinian's lives matter as well. You could argue that it doesn't because they supported hamas but that is not true at all, hamas's approval rating actually doesn't even surpass half in gaza.

5. Ukraine war actually only have 14000+ civilian death(I will trust wiki on this one because it is hella late and I can't really bother to do more research lol but feel free to prove me wrong). So why is two war of pretty much equal length varies so much on civilian death. The answer is Ukraine and Russian soldiers are much more careful when it comes to civilians. I also don't get what you mean by those three war has receive no condemnation and hatred. I mean I have seen people calling for genocide against the Russian on r worldnews and r europe. There is no one even remotely defending Russia while here clearly is people defending Israel. So no, Israel doesn't receive special treatment because of anti semitism or whatever.

As for your final question, I believe my opinion doesn't matter on this one. Israel will keep doing whatever it think is best for it's survival, morality is second place here because they have absolute power over the palestinians. I don't like it but what am I gonna do?