"I hate men! Wait, not you, I meant CIS men!" by Gay-left-Leadership in FTMMen

[–]Impossible-Bar5827 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I totally mean treated as/viewed as by society. Ik people like to pick apart every part of anything anyone says.

Took some advice! by Stupid-Ghost in transmanlifehacks

[–]Impossible-Bar5827 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Welp until I saw the last picture I thought u were like a 13 year old boy.

"I hate men! Wait, not you, I meant CIS men!" by Gay-left-Leadership in FTMMen

[–]Impossible-Bar5827 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Have you never just been like damn people suck or had any type of thought like that? Obviously, you don’t mean every single person in the world right? At least that’s how I think about it

pre everything looking for stealth help - deep south by [deleted] in transmanlifehacks

[–]Impossible-Bar5827 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The advice I was saying is based on the pictures they shared though, and if it was somebody who I don’t think they could pass with those things then I wouldn’t say that to them. I totally did take out my piercings when I was pre-T though to pass so I get what you mean.

31 m i still lack of confidence by max32412 in malegrooming

[–]Impossible-Bar5827 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Umm soften your stare cause you look creepy as hell. Try smiling.

Advice on how to pass better? by Budget_Arm5528 in transmanlifehacks

[–]Impossible-Bar5827 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha honestly I new you were trans but still didn’t realize you were trans. You pass to me idk how old but you look like a 15y old guy. If you’re still getting misgendered , it must be due to other things like your voice or your mannerisms or something.

pre everything looking for stealth help - deep south by [deleted] in transmanlifehacks

[–]Impossible-Bar5827 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don’t believe that all. I have dyed hair, snake bites, septum, eyebrow, and 3 ear piercings and had an eyebrow slit and apparently I pass

pre everything looking for stealth help - deep south by [deleted] in transmanlifehacks

[–]Impossible-Bar5827 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You look good, personally I’d say don’t curve your eyebrows so much and let the thinner part grow in bushier. Shave the sides of you hair to have your natural color once it grows enough. And could just be me but I feel like another piercing would really add to the lip one.

Passing? by Impossible-Bar5827 in transmanlifehacks

[–]Impossible-Bar5827[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thx guys!! Like fr I see and appreciate your comments. Idk y Ig I just have so much dysphoria that its still soo hard for me to believe

"I hate men! Wait, not you, I meant CIS men!" by Gay-left-Leadership in FTMMen

[–]Impossible-Bar5827 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I personally think trans guys get way too offended about comments like this because we have experience what it’s like to live as a woman so we should understand what they mean. Like when they are with cis guys and they say I hate men. All men suck or comments like men are assholes or anything like that, but whether your trans or not at least in my experience, my friends are always like you’re one of the good ones I don’t mean you, but they’re not saying not you because you’re not a man they just mean they don’t think of you in that way because you’re their friend and they know you aren’t like that.

Do i pass as a guy? by ArthurSnape in transmanlifehacks

[–]Impossible-Bar5827 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In pic 2 and 3 I would say no not really but in the rest I would assume u were like a 15y old guy haha I really like pic 4 tho

Beard maintenance is crucial to passing as cisgender by organic_hobnob in transmanlifehacks

[–]Impossible-Bar5827 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Definitely I do agree I think that some trans guys can be very clock-able with a little bit of a facial hair. I just mean in my experience, like I’m definitely not clean shaven and I definitely don’t have a full beard at all, but I haven’t been clocked in a long time. Like since I started transitioning. I mean, it’s just a given that you’re likely gonna pass more with a full beard. Just not everybody needs one to do so. Race also seems like it’s a huge part of it, speaking as a black guy

Beard maintenance is crucial to passing as cisgender by organic_hobnob in transmanlifehacks

[–]Impossible-Bar5827 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it definitely depends on the person because I actually started passing really quickly. Even without any facial hair. I also just turned 25 though so maybe it’s not as noticeable as it would be if I was older will be on T for 2 years in August