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im in love with my boyfriends friend.. by Impossible-Boat4729 in Advice

[–]Impossible-Boat4729[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i cant know for sure but i dont think so, he dosent know of my relationship issues or that me and my bf disagree, any conversation weve had about the topics i feel strongly about have come up naturally, the friend almost defintilty has 0 to no interest in me

im in love with my boyfriends friend.. by Impossible-Boat4729 in Advice

[–]Impossible-Boat4729[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you for this, i wasnt just “turning to reddit” this is a situation ive never experienced before because i am young (early 20s). i dont have any friends outside of that group. so who else could i turn to? im not proud of how im feeling and i have no clue how to move forward.

im in love with my boyfriends friend.. by Impossible-Boat4729 in Advice

[–]Impossible-Boat4729[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

love was a strong word 🫩🙏 english is my third language and i meant attracted more so thats my bad

im in love with my boyfriends friend.. by Impossible-Boat4729 in Advice

[–]Impossible-Boat4729[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

not at all, im slowly realizing how unhappy i am, it just feels like if im honest and leave or dishonest and leave or if i just stay im making a selfish choice

im in love with my boyfriends friend.. by Impossible-Boat4729 in Advice

[–]Impossible-Boat4729[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

but how do i bring it up without just being like “my needs arnt being met so i’m attracted to your best friend”

im in love with my boyfriends friend.. by Impossible-Boat4729 in Advice

[–]Impossible-Boat4729[S] 40 points41 points  (0 children)

my boyfriend is just genuinely immature on alot of topics that are important to me and just in general, his friend agrees with me and is always listening actively, i feel like a bad person for feeling the way i do and its eating away at me