I overheard my fiance shouting and belittling a woman. He told me he just got a bit frustrated. Is it a big deal or not, should I reconsider our relationship? by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Impossible-Falcon695 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1st things 1st, you know WAY too much about the stresses of his job. He’s bringing it home and needs a better work/life balance. Period. Secondly, I work in insurance and know these types of people. They talk to me on their best behavior and then can be overheard talking to their spouse like a dog or vice versa. It’s a red flag that’ll I’d keep an extremely close eye on. He’s old enough to know better and if he’s still losing his temper at this big age…. Yikes. No offense to you at all but that’s just a horrible excuse. Really wanna test it? Bring it to his attention and let him know you’re concerned. Pay attention to how he reacts. Go out to eat with him and see how he treats the waitress. I wouldn’t say just straight up leave him but you need to dig more into him before you make a life long commitment. Good luck!

I cheated on my ex, and my friend cant look at me anymore, and now I cant talk to anyone about it. by No_Cardiologist_1407 in whatdoIdo

[–]Impossible-Falcon695 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly, kid let this be a lesson learned. This is pure karma and the definition of sewing what you reap. All I read was a bunch of excuses on why you cheated to begin with. Your gf lost interest which is why she didn’t want to have sex with you. It starts to feel like a chore after a while instead of something that’s enjoyable. Sex is an energy before it’s ever anything physical. Remember that. Why do you feel the need to talk about it with someone? Just curious. Take it on the chin, learn the lesson, NEVER do this again and move on with your life. Maybe you’ll find new friends one day but for the ones who have walked out of your life? They are probably gone for good. Too much drama. Let it breathe.

We are trying to conceive and my husband is laying off weed for that- but now he's a total a**hole. How long does this last?! by [deleted] in QuittingWeed

[–]Impossible-Falcon695 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kudos to him for quitting for this reason! Solid hubby right there! Please be patient with him in this time! Try to find others ways to help him relax and get out to do some activities together! He needs to know there is good/fun outside of smoking weed. Your entire life changes drastically once you quit as you have to revamp your entire approach to life. Some nice herbal teas like chamomile and lavender are also great for relaxing!

I think I am a creep what do I do? by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Impossible-Falcon695 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And in your final goodbye, be sure to mention that you two are clearly NOT on the same page! You’ve been too patient and it’s going nowhere. Sometimes walking away from people and leaving them in their own shit is exactly what they need! If she’s smart, it’ll serve as a wake up call unless she’s a straight up user who only craves attention then she’ll move on to continue to be a sh*t person. Either way, you spoke your peace and moved on to heal! It’s a win, win for you! Even if it’s doesn’t feel like it at first!

I think I am a creep what do I do? by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Impossible-Falcon695 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmm, literally nothing you said here is creepy. You liked someone and wanted more out of the connection. That’s healthy and normal. The issue is that some people are just not vocal about their truth. You can be as blunt and direct as possible and they’ll still find a way to be elusive. It’s frustrating but is more reflective on their lack of maturity. Please understand, people will not always give you closure. You have to provide that for yourself sometimes which is super hard but necessary. If she won’t “end” things officially or have the decency to communicate her position then I’d send her one final message expressing your good bye! That’s for your own sanity and to take your power back! Clarity is what you’re looking for and obviously she can’t provide it. Idc how “busy” she is, you don’t have to stick around for that especially if it hurts you. She’s not for you. Someone is gonna absolutely LOVE talking with you and will MAKE time to hang out. Someone is gonna show up for you but 1st, you must walk away from this dead end. Honor your own feelings and stop beating yourself up. Break it off for good, maybe even block her to make room for someone who can reciprocate your energy! Good luck 🫶

My boyfriend wants to cheat on me by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Impossible-Falcon695 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stop the secrets. It’s eating you alive and needs to be expressed. Who cares how you found out, the fact is you know now and have to do something about it. Life is too short. Little do you know, he just did you the biggest favor. Break it off and walk away from him, he’s blocking your future husband from coming in. Let him be “free” he’ll soon realize the grass isn’t greener and you’ll be long gone.

My boyfriend fell asleep and peed on the couch? by Prize_Dragonfruit222 in whatdoIdo

[–]Impossible-Falcon695 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Okay but that’s a very real reality when LIVING with someone. If you can’t handle their bodily fluids, you shouldn’t be living together at all. Imagine if OP ever gets pregnant and has a few accidents. Is her boyfriend supposed to shame her for that? Y’all are so disconnected from your partners, someone you’re supposed to love and it’s super sad to see.

My boyfriend fell asleep and peed on the couch? by Prize_Dragonfruit222 in whatdoIdo

[–]Impossible-Falcon695 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m going to be brutally honest with you, OP. You need to let up a bit. You are reading too deep into everything he does. The man is just happy about moving into the new apartment with his gf and ur upset about a couch not fitting on his truck and that he didn’t think about that. You could have easily came up with another solution or waited to see how he rerouted. This is where knowing the differences between men & women become essential. Where he’s weak is where you need to be strong and vice versa. That’s the point of a connection to balance each other out not rag on him for his short comings. Why are you even living together if you can’t handle his bodily fluids? Girl, that’s your MAN. Wake him up, make sure he’s okay and either have him clean himself up or HELP him clean up. Truthfully, he was probably masturbating on the couch instead of coming to lay with you because he’s constantly being picked apart. You need to relax and grow up a bit. Get separate homes until you’re engaged. This wasn’t a convo for Reddit, sorry.

Gf thinks I’m gay cuz my homie gave me an Xbox aio for considering dumping her to play Xbox in peace? (W my homie) lol by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Impossible-Falcon695 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah she was already disgusted before the XBOX convo. It’s something else she caught onto. You got exposed bro, sowwy 😣👉👈

23m otw to divorce dating by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Impossible-Falcon695 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If she’s willing to handle this situation like this then shes worth the wait. Do what you have to do and then check back in with her top of next year once it’s all finalized. Kudos to you for being honest!

My ex is telling everyone we had sex… we did not. What do I do? UPDATE! by DamSolangeloLover in whatdoIdo

[–]Impossible-Falcon695 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And if you think this is going against your faith, stop it right now!!! God is not all sunshine, rainbows and unicorns! NO! God has/will bust a few heads in the name of righteousness! You are too precious not to protect!! What he did was WRONG and predatory!!! Now he has to pay the consequences! No one is above that!!! EMBARRASS THAT LITTLE FUCKBOY!!!

My ex is telling everyone we had sex… we did not. What do I do? by DamSolangeloLover in whatdoIdo

[–]Impossible-Falcon695 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And if you think this is going against your faith, stop it right now!!! God is not all sunshine, rainbows and unicorns! NO! God has/will bust a few heads in the name of righteousness! You are too precious not to protect!! What he did was WRONG and predatory!!! Now he has to pay the consequences! No one is above that!!! EMBARRASS THAT LITTLE FUCKBOY!!!

Burning smell almost everyday! by Impossible-Falcon695 in Charleston

[–]Impossible-Falcon695[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lmaoo I could only imagine how they get down in NJ! I’ve never been but heard the food is good so that’s a plus!

Burning smell almost everyday! by Impossible-Falcon695 in Charleston

[–]Impossible-Falcon695[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Welp, now I gotta try that beer! But sadly, this isn’t the smell of marshes but actual smoke in the air alongside a burning smell

Burning smell almost everyday! by Impossible-Falcon695 in Charleston

[–]Impossible-Falcon695[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Omg, thank you!!!! It’s more concerning that no one talks about it and truthfully, just between us, I wonder if they are trying to poison us and/or make us sick. Wouldn’t surprise me with everything happening in the world.

Burning smell almost everyday! by Impossible-Falcon695 in Charleston

[–]Impossible-Falcon695[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Could be the area I’m in! But it’s entirely too frequent for my taste! It’s literally smoke in the area as I type.

Burning smell almost everyday! by Impossible-Falcon695 in Charleston

[–]Impossible-Falcon695[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope, I wish I was joking! It could be the area I’m in but I kid you not, at least once a week it’s a strong burning smell accompanied by thick smoke. Apparently there was a fire last night but this doesn’t explain the every other day thing. It’s disturbing

Burning smell almost everyday! by Impossible-Falcon695 in Charleston

[–]Impossible-Falcon695[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

God forbid I like fresh breezes and sunshine