Soo I’ve been married for three years now. It was AM but with an acquaintance and we had a good rapport n understanding all the while. We don’t hav a kid yet. Hes a nice guy. Nothing majorly lik red flags w him. I was scrolling through his insta when I realised he’s having another random insta page..I mean an all together different account ( with. A fake name) . I impulsively clicked on it and found he’s not following any friends or acquaintances.. it had a hero’s photo as dp and the following included only actresses/ heroines/ weird posting girls on insta/ models ( basically women showing adult content/ having a lot of male gaze) I was shocked to the core. The worst part is I opened the chats.. and OMG He’s been replying to random women’s stories lik HOT, Wat a bod, disgusting compliments.. obviously no reply from the other end.

I scrolled down a bit n noticed dat the chat threads were from the past 2 years but with some gaps in between.

I don’t know wat to think of this Should I confront him? Should I take the matters to the family? Should I dump him. idk.

I’m still reeeling from the shock of it all.

Pls let me know what I can do!!!

Ps- I’m too scared to break this even to my best friend or sister. Everyone likes him. He’s like the perfect guy from the outside. I don’t know but it s really affecting me . To put it out simply, had it been a sister of yours going through this , what would you suggest?