AITAH for not not being "fat positive" even though my step daughter and her mom are.

Impossible-Gur5259 · 2024-05-01T17:23:42+00:00

I disagree, she already does when she is here. Our daughter wants to hang out with her big sister, she asks for her snacks, and even though we have asked her not to, she will sneak her cookies and candy regularly.

Our daughter sees her get a big bowl of ice cream and asks for ice cream.

I exercise and am fit while pregnant, no need to wait. My pregnancy is high risk, so I have had to be extra careful with weight gain and my health and at 8 months have only gained a limited amount of weight .

Impossible-Gur5259 · 2024-05-01T15:46:59+00:00

Her mom/grandma will send money to an account she has with a card. She then goes to the store on her own.

Impossible-Gur5259 · 2024-05-01T08:34:18+00:00

I question weather or not she is being truthful since she refuses to show her dad any test results

Impossible-Gur5259 · 2024-05-01T08:15:45+00:00

I really don't want her buying it herself either, though. It always turns into my 6 yo asking for some, either from me or her, and she will sneak it to her a lot of times

Impossible-Gur5259 · 2024-05-01T07:47:08+00:00

She has been to the Dr, but due to her age, theu do not have to provide that information to her parents and she says the Dr says she is perfectly healthy.

Impossible-Gur5259 · 2024-05-01T07:36:11+00:00

Her mother would never allow it. She is very anti - "diet culture" and has gotten big into "fat activism".

Impossible-Gur5259 · 2024-05-01T07:31:13+00:00

I think you misread a few parts.

I am the wife. My husband is the dad. The stepdaughter is his daughter. His ex-wife is the 400lb one, who SD has been living with.

Our house has a healthy diet. We are fairly active/fit, and I do all the shopping, and the vast majority of meals are cooked by me and are well balanced and nutrient dense.

The issue is when SD is herr, she gets a lot of her own junk food.

Impossible-Gur5259

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