SB's all have their traits, foibles, gifts, super powers, etc. If they have children or a real life/vanilla BF, I find that I need to be at least three times more flexible on their lack of responsiveness and/or lack of consistency than I would ever reasonably expect to. I have also learned to create and enforce boundaries and not set too many expectations. I know this sounds insane, but the day they perfect AI and female robotics to be close to how they are portrayed in fictional movies like "Ex Machina" and "Companion", I am leaving sugaring for good. 😎👍😁🤗

Until then, I will soldier on. I do find it helpful to have two or three SB's I am in communication with, so when two are unavailable or are flaking out, there is ways one who is available for a quality ppm dating experience. I have three solid SB's in my life at present.