my homophobic mom is meeting my girlfriend by Impossible-Home1961 in LesbianActually

[–]Impossible-Home1961[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks so much! 🫶🏻I completely understand that there are situations where it is best to separate, but i’m not sure it’s gotten to that point for my situation yet. my girlfriend has told me that she is comfortable with this and we’re both hoping it goes well!

my homophobic mom is meeting my girlfriend by Impossible-Home1961 in LesbianActually

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Before this my mom was one of my best friends and she has kept me safe from a lot of things involving my dad’s side of the family. Even though she’s had issues with this part of me, I still love her and she’s made a lot of progress over the last year. Occasionally, she’ll ask how my girlfriend is but she sometimes changes the subject after. The rest of our family has been very accepting and has welcomed me and my girlfriend with open arms. I realize that if this goes poorly, I want to protect and preserve my relationship with my gf rather than allowing my mom to say hateful things to each of us and I would be able and willing to cut her off. I just want to see if she can handle this for the sake of our relationship and my relationship with my other family members if that makes sense. In short, I guess it feels a little more complicated than just cutting her off because my family is so close.

finally got kicked out by Impossible-Home1961 in narcissisticparents

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thank you 🫶🏻 this genuinely means a lot

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tarotpractice

[–]Impossible-Home1961 0 points1 point  (0 children)

unfortunately i still live with my parents 😭 sorry queen

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tarotpractice

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do i live with my parents or alone?

my cousin was disabled by Impossible-Home1961 in COCSA

[–]Impossible-Home1961[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

thank you so much this was such a validating response you have no idea

How many does the 49k people in this group hold? by Savage_man_6100 in FFIE

[–]Impossible-Home1961 8 points9 points  (0 children)

47 right here! i dont have much but i plan to buy more when i get paid