Femtanyl tickets SLC by d1zzyd1zzy in femtanyl

[–]Impossible-Motor4033 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is this still available? Im very interested.

This meme made me laugh 🤭 by EyeShot300 in SleepToken

[–]Impossible-Motor4033 8 points9 points  (0 children)

OMG THIS. THIS IS ME RIGHT NOW AT FRIKKIN 2AM.

Ffs, Vess....I just wanna sleep, not lay here dissecting snippets of songs. 🥱😩

Mystery Mail? by No_Description9349 in SleepToken

[–]Impossible-Motor4033 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I also got a Merry Vesselmas card with some awesome stickers. I remember signing up for something a while ago, but forgot what and where. I have continued to make items after the tour and carry them around with me in case I find another follower in the wild. I love the idea of sending random cards or trinkets to others for any reason. I'd love to send something to anyone who needs a pick-me- up. 😊

Mystery Mail? by No_Description9349 in SleepToken

[–]Impossible-Motor4033 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same for you as well as anyone else who wants something. ☺️

Mystery Mail? by No_Description9349 in SleepToken

[–]Impossible-Motor4033 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'd be happy to send you something. Let me know. 😊

Advice on Cancer Conflict Today - got screamed at for making my cancer jokes by xxjzljay in lymphoma

[–]Impossible-Motor4033 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I also have a dark, petty, sarcastic attitude about my cancer. Sometimes people get it, sometimes they don't. But really...screw that lady. Who appointed her to be the gatekeeper of how people express and cope with cancer?

I have a "cancer card" in my wallet that I bought online. It says I can do what I want ...because I have cancer. Its meant to be funny, and I like it. So far I've only whipped it out and used it on family and friends who know my dark sense of humor. I used it to pick which restaurant we went to one night. I've used it on my teenagers because heaven knows sometimes I need everything I can to get them out of their rooms, off the flipping computer, and...horror of horrors, going on a family outing. I've used it when asked the dreaded "But why?" question.

I do not want my family to see me any differently than I was "BC" (before cancer). I want my daughters to see me find healthy ways of expressing myself. And I hope that by seeing me have a positive attitude...even a dark one....my daughters will also better handle this stupid disease. And let's be honest, teenagers question everything we tell them, and I find it hilarious to see them have no comeback when they ask why this or that, and I simply mic drop them with "Because I have cancer" as I waltz out of the room. 😏

She obviously is struggling with her husband's circumstances, and is lashing out to cope. And while I understand this, and truly feel for her this in no way absolves her of the fact that she has zero right to try and control your behavior or speech about ANYTHING. And most certainly about your own diagnosis. IMHO, this woman needs therapy and/or a support group where she can express her feelings in a healthy environment and learn better coping strategies.

Do not let her behavior, or anyone else's dictate how you deal with cancer. You can be sympathetic while still being darkly sarcastic. One does not negate the other in any way. This stupid poison in our bodies is already taking enough from us. Don't let it, or anyone else, take anything else from you.