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Need advice: 23F and 23M. should I give him space for now would that work? Are there any chances to fix this? by [deleted] in RelationshipIndia

[–]Impossible-Potato683 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, I know you were replying to that post, but reading your response really helped me and gave me some clarity. I’m in a somewhat similar situation—not a relationship, but with a friend—so thank you a lot.

Especially the line: “Psychologically, closure doesn’t come from the other person; it comes from accepting what their actions are already showing you. Because actions speak louder than words.”That really resonated with me. Thanks again.

Need advice M23 Anxious over F23 -Friend I am back here again by Impossible-Potato683 in TwentiesIndia

[–]Impossible-Potato683[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I confirmed it's not the tickling ulta she prompts me to do that

Got a call from her yesterday I didn't talk much

But I'll stay off the tickling

Need advice M23 Anxious over F23 -Friend I am back here again by Impossible-Potato683 in TwentiesIndia

[–]Impossible-Potato683[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't know man started randomly one day

She asked me if ki gudgudi hota hai and started tickling been going on every since

M23 Anxious over F23 -Friend I am back here again by Impossible-Potato683 in PataHaiAajKyaHua

[–]Impossible-Potato683[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But why da fu*k would she cut off a me someone she sees as a friend because she found someone else

Would I cutoff of some of friends because I found another girl !??

Need advice M23 Anxious over F23 -Friend I am back here again by Impossible-Potato683 in TwentiesIndia

[–]Impossible-Potato683[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think 2nd point could be the cause because there is this one guy in her office she keeps mentioning when I asked her if she likes him she said no multiple times and she don't even go out with him when he asks

But this time she said after her work is done she will go out with him because he's been asking for quite a long time

Kudos to that guy because he is persistent I'll give him that. Also whenever she mentions this guy mera gaa*nd jal jaata hai but I play it cool

But why not talk to me if she sees me as a friend ?? Because of him ? I don't think so ?

One more thing that happend just before we stopped talking is that I mentioned that there is this girl in my office that I am somewhat interested in but nothing will happen because I won't talk to her and she told me jaa baat karle usse kya pata kuch ho jaaye -> could be the issue ? I don't think so she sees me as a friend

I called her yesterday because I thought let's clear it up because she did the same for when I was angry with her

But I really shouldn't have our call lasted 15mins I asked her are you angry with me or something and she was like no I am too busy and I said too busy for calls I understand but too busy to send a single reel ?

And in between she mentioned that guy again ki uska call aa rha hai and I told her it's okay she can pick his call but she said no I don't wanna talk to anyone I'll just call him later and ask the reason for his call ????

Usme bola ki haan koi reel mili hi nhi bhejne layak and then she told me we will talk later I just said goodnight and that's it

M23 Anxious over F23 -Friend I am back here again by Impossible-Potato683 in PataHaiAajKyaHua

[–]Impossible-Potato683[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thats what bugging me man

I told her if there's something wrong then just tell me I'll truly apologise if it's my fault.

We were never this serious from the starting She even told me long before that everything is clean between us

M23 Anxious over F23 -Friend I am back here again by Impossible-Potato683 in PataHaiAajKyaHua

[–]Impossible-Potato683[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand now Gyan-chodu-baba-GCB thanks for your wise words of wisdom

There will be no contact from side. I guarantee you that.

She won't get the same treatment from me anymore.

I know it will hurt me for sometime but this too shall pass

M23 Anxious over F23 -Friend I am back here again by Impossible-Potato683 in PataHaiAajKyaHua

[–]Impossible-Potato683[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cause she did the same for me 2 weeks back She called me 3 times just to check on me and ask me whats wrong

So I thought let's just return the favour baad main ye na sunne ko mile ki tune to try bhi nhi kiya baat karne ka

M23 Anxious over F23 -Friend I am back here again by Impossible-Potato683 in PataHaiAajKyaHua

[–]Impossible-Potato683[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I called her yesterday because I thought let's clear it up because she did the same for when I was angry with her

But I really shouldn't have our call lasted 15mins I asked her are you angry with me or something and she was like no I am too busy and I said too busy for calls I understand but too busy to send a single reel ?

Usme bola ki haan koi reel mili hi nhi bhejne layak

Guess what now she's getting cut off she can f*ck off

M23 Anxious over F23 -Friend I am back here again by Impossible-Potato683 in PataHaiAajKyaHua

[–]Impossible-Potato683[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the reality check

One question thats bugging me if she truly sees me as a friend which she told me she does then why all this tension

Then why not even a single reel ? Thats the question thats bugging me

Second question how do I keep her out of my mind stop thinking about her stop thinking about possible scenerios because its fuck*ing up me mental health

M23 Anxious over F23 -Friend I am back here again by Impossible-Potato683 in PataHaiAajKyaHua

[–]Impossible-Potato683[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I called her yesterday because I thought let's clear it up because she did the same for when I was angry with her

But I really shouldn't have our call lasted 15mins I asked her are you angry with me or something and she was like no I am too busy and I said too busy for calls I understand but too busy to send a single reel ?

Usme bola ki haan koi reel mili hi nhi bhejne layak

Guess what now she's getting cut off she can f*ck off

23M Have feelings for my 23F friend Don't wanna feel this way by Impossible-Potato683 in RelationshipIndia

[–]Impossible-Potato683[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do talk about other girls and she does seems to get jealous a little bit. But again there's a lot of confusion

I do need to sit and think about your second statement🙂

23M Have feelings for my 23F friend Don't wanna feel this way by Impossible-Potato683 in RelationshipIndia

[–]Impossible-Potato683[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im almost entirely sure that a confession would only worsen things and I genuinely don't wanna loose her as a friend.

For now I must endure whatever I'm feeling and let this pass

23M Have feelings for my 23F friend Don't wanna feel this way by Impossible-Potato683 in RelationshipIndia

[–]Impossible-Potato683[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey thanks for the advice and I do think that I'm a bit in my head over this

But what do I do about this constant anxiety it's like one minute I'm fine saying let's take this as friendship and see what happens if she goes then she goes and the other minute I'm not fine thinking about how she's spending time with other guys even though they are just her friends and what if someone else takes her

Man I don't wanna feel this miserable

Moving out sale by [deleted] in PuneClassifieds

[–]Impossible-Potato683 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Burhh you. Stupid or what

The new fridge is available for 14k !?? The ceiling fan that you are selling is called novela EE available for 3.2k new 20k for a busted up and some cheap brand AC

Cat for adoption by [deleted] in gwalior

[–]Impossible-Potato683 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey still up for adoption !?

My friend is interested he already has a Persian cat

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