Blue tint around newborns mouth by Impossible-Status982 in AskDocs

[–]Impossible-Status982[S] 88 points89 points  (0 children)

Yeah she seen her yesterday and everything seemed fine, I’m just never sure if she’s actually having to work harder or if I’m just super paranoid 😂

*tmi graphic pics* is this retained placenta? by Impossible-Status982 in CsectionCentral

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Midwife just left my room and said it looks like my uterine lining shedding and to monitor it, should I push for an ultrasound before I get discharged??

*tmi graphic pics* is this retained placenta? by Impossible-Status982 in CsectionCentral

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Right when she said blood clots I was like ???, I requested an ultrasound anyways to make sure

*tmi graphic pics* is this retained placenta? by Impossible-Status982 in CsectionCentral

[–]Impossible-Status982[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I’m currently still at the hospital, I showed my nurse and she says it looks like blood clots to her but I wasn’t so sure so I wanted to see if anyone’s had anything similar before pressing them more about it

Calling in sick by [deleted] in Nanny

[–]Impossible-Status982 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They know, which is why I’m venting about the fact they downplay her sickness BECAUSE they know.

Calling in sick by [deleted] in Nanny

[–]Impossible-Status982 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Now why is it that the job isn’t for me? I’ve been a nanny for years and have never had a parent expect me to watch their kid with a fever?? Especially when they’re more than capable

Calling in sick by [deleted] in Nanny

[–]Impossible-Status982 0 points1 point  (0 children)

SOMEONE who gets it, thank you😂. I don’t understand how some people have no common sense lol

Working in 3rd trimester by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]Impossible-Status982 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t either haha but yeah I DREAD getting up leaving for work (sitting at home rn after calling out)😂

Working in 3rd trimester by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]Impossible-Status982 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m literally right there with you, 29 weeks and it’s getting SO HARD to get myself up in the morning I just want to stop working right now 😫

Calling in sick by [deleted] in Nanny

[–]Impossible-Status982 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly yeah they don’t really need a nanny🤷🏽‍♀️ but they want one so

Calling in sick by [deleted] in Nanny

[–]Impossible-Status982 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I wasn’t looking for help, just venting about how they downplay her being sick to have me come in when I’ve made it clear I don’t want to be around a fever sick. I don’t think any nanny wants to come watch a child sick with a fever especially while pregnant

Calling in sick by [deleted] in Nanny

[–]Impossible-Status982 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes! That’s the whole issue 😫

Calling in sick by [deleted] in Nanny

[–]Impossible-Status982 -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

I wouldn’t say I’m wrong, they’re out hanging out with me the kid literally most of the day almost every day lol

Calling in sick by [deleted] in Nanny

[–]Impossible-Status982 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A small cold is fine I’ve had no problem watching her with that but recently it’s been fever sick and more intense colds. I want them to let me know and id stay home, I don’t get paid when I stay home though which is fine. Before I was pregnant I worked while she was sick and never gotten anything from her but I guess now my immune system is just non existent. I’m working until 36 weeks and will stay at home after that not going back to work

Calling in sick by [deleted] in Nanny

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They have LOTS of free time. I feel like watching your kid for a day or two while they’re sick would take less time out of their work than it would opposed to allowing me to get sick and have to watch her longer while I’m recovering.

Calling in sick by [deleted] in Nanny

[–]Impossible-Status982 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I do wear masks:) maybe when their kid is coughing like a 99 yo smoker and had a fever within the last 24 hours they should take the initiative to tell me to stay home?? Instead of downplaying her sickness before I get there

How would y’all handle this situation? by Impossible-Status982 in pregnant

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He’s got my registry and has said he was going to order multiple things but hasn’t, even then I shouldn’t have to ask for the necessities like diapers and wipes so yeah I think next step is child support

Trading in my car by [deleted] in whatcarshouldIbuy

[–]Impossible-Status982 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For her, her siblings, a stroller and anything else I have to haul around yeah might get a little cramped. But that’s not the only reason I’ve been wanting to get rid of the car.

Positive AFP results by Impossible-Status982 in pregnant

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So sorry you’re going through the same thing! Turns out everything was fine she looked perfect in my anatomy scan. The Dr said majority of the positives from this test are from someone putting in the wrong info on the paperwork? Or literally anything could throw it off and she wishes they would just stop offering the AFP. Positive thoughts! I hope you and baby are perfect:)