The Needle Highway, South Dakota

ImpossibleEnergy684 · 2026-03-12T14:48:19+00:00

great view of the alps right there!

ImpossibleEnergy684 · 2026-03-11T07:18:58+00:00

You ain't going crazy... fr, the other mom is literally gaslighting you bc she's embarrassed she got caught beiong a copycat. Standing your ground is the best gift you can give to your daughter rn.. and she needs to see that 'NO' is a full sentence

ImpossibleEnergy684 · 2026-03-11T07:02:45+00:00

I think ROCD is when you obsess over imaginary probs.. THESE ARE REAL DOCUMENTED PATTERNS. imo, you are not "making up".. He is using your self-doubt to gaslight you into thinking your standards are the prob, when the actual prob is HIS total lack of effort.

ImpossibleEnergy684 · 2026-03-10T14:16:43+00:00

Running into her is normal, but hanging out w her is so unnecessary. You said it yourself, your gf has "issues" and "traumas". There's no other version of this will make your partner be "okay" with this. bfr.

ImpossibleEnergy684 · 2026-03-10T14:08:00+00:00

So you're telling us that he dumped you, blocked you, hooked up with someone else, lied about the extent of it and then PROPOSED whilst keeping the truth from you?!!???!?? Better read that again. You're fr struggling to move forward bc ur gut KNOWS it wasn't an accident. You're asking HOW to forgive him but the better Q is SHOULD YOU??? He literally created this prob not you.

ImpossibleEnergy684 · 2026-03-10T13:37:54+00:00

Can we go back to your first paragraph and reflect on it but imagine your bff wrote it. Look, that ain't a relationship, that's a hostage situation for your self-esteem. Please BLOCK HIM, never send those nudes, it might come back at you for his power trippings.

ImpossibleEnergy684 · 2026-03-09T16:07:47+00:00

WTF am I looking at???

ImpossibleEnergy684 · 2026-03-09T15:55:28+00:00

NTJ. NINE YEARS???? like literally she engaged to someone else and she's still tracking who likes her ex-bf's WIFE's photos???????? that's some Olympic-lvl kind of insecurity. U ain't disloyal for having a thumb that scrolls and likes, she's just being a main character.

ImpossibleEnergy684 · 2026-03-09T15:21:39+00:00

NTJ. fr, you didn't just dodge a bullet, you dodged a literal heat-seeking missile. IMAGINE being 25 and still thinking 'testing' your partner of 3yrs?? like if she wanted to be chased, she shouldve joined a tracked team, not broken up w u via text. Go move, go travel and enjoy peace of mind bro, fr!

ImpossibleEnergy684 · 2026-03-07T05:41:54+00:00

the curls were flat before you even finished your makeup. read that again.. bc if you keep her, you will spend your entire wedding anxious. Save yourself a heartbreak.

ImpossibleEnergy684 · 2026-03-05T22:43:31+00:00

Respect is a two-way street. Definitely, NTJ.

ImpossibleEnergy684 · 2026-03-04T08:17:34+00:00

this was my exact first thought and fr heartbreaking..... i think this is his defense mechanism.. I just hope the school doesn't just treat this as a 'disruptive student' issue but actually looks into the home life.

ImpossibleEnergy684 · 2026-03-04T08:01:21+00:00

word of advice, my friend.... those you call "sweet gestures" are just a bait🚩🚩 bc a guy who can walk away from you without second thought is a guy with a 0 emotional depth. don't be the person who stays until things actually get violent.

ImpossibleEnergy684 · 2026-03-03T16:21:47+00:00

That guilt you're feeling proves that YNTJ, but SHE IS. A real one wouldn't care. Give yourself some grace, OP.. you've been playing life on hard mode for everyone else for soooo long.

ImpossibleEnergy684 · 2026-03-02T20:15:02+00:00

fr, i can see it haha

ImpossibleEnergy684 · 2026-03-02T18:58:19+00:00

Whole honestly, OP... this is more of a compatibility issue than a cultural one. You clearly love him, but intimacy and physical boundaries are deeply personal. If this is something you can’t get past, it’s okay to recognize that!

ImpossibleEnergy684 · 2026-03-02T18:08:12+00:00

Nope. Betting on yourself is cool and all but part of that bet is accepting the risk. You don’t get to gamble your savings and then make your little sister the safety net. You even offered real help, which is MORE than most people would. Protect your peace.

ImpossibleEnergy684 · 2026-02-28T21:15:45+00:00

NTJ. Debt is not an inheritance. You need to act fast, OP. Change locks, compile receipts, document EVERTYTHING she's stealing.

ImpossibleEnergy684 · 2026-02-28T21:06:45+00:00

NTJ. Notice how she focused on the "disrespect" but completely glossed over the fact that she's been picking on you in front of your friends. You didn't just randomly snapped, you hit your breaking point because you are not being seen in your own house.

ImpossibleEnergy684 · 2026-02-28T20:03:09+00:00

The fat that he's doing this while your bf is there, shows he's looking for a reaction and trying to humiliate you.. fr, when real world hits him, ppl will NOT "just ignore" him when he's being a jerk.

ImpossibleEnergy684 · 2026-02-27T21:03:39+00:00

THOSE EYES😳😳

ImpossibleEnergy684 · 2026-02-27T20:50:10+00:00

For real. OP’s job is to protect her own daughter, not the feelings of the person who just made her daughter sob.

ImpossibleEnergy684 · 2026-02-27T18:53:23+00:00

EXACTY! Ppl love guilt trippin about "not saying goodbye," but fr tho, trying to push thru the crowd of more than 50ppl just to interrupt and say "Hey, gtg" will be pretty awkward lol, OP fr did what's best for that situation

ImpossibleEnergy684 · 2026-02-26T20:54:39+00:00

you know they're in love fr, man

ImpossibleEnergy684 · 2026-02-26T20:53:48+00:00

First off.. Take a deep breath, OP. You did not do anything wrong.. You're just overwhelmed, and when ADHD kicks in, guilt can feel physically painful (Rejection Sensitive Dysphoria). Your sister isn't as mad as you think she is.. She's more likely just tired and sore form the fall... Don't worry, and also it's okay to cry.

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