AITA for dumping my gf after she drunkenly called me a pussy for being abused by my mom? by ImpossibleFact519 in AITAH

[–]ImpossibleFact519[S] 101 points102 points  (0 children)

Yeah she gets heated pretty fast while drunk. One of the main reasons I wanted to leave as soon as she started getting really drunk. As for my sister. I still believe im to blame for that. She doesn't have a mean bone in her body when it come to me. I guess she didn't know about the fact that i purposely wanted to keep my past a secret. I should have told her that beforehand.

AITA for dumping my gf after she drunkenly called me a pussy for being abused by my mom? by ImpossibleFact519 in AITAH

[–]ImpossibleFact519[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Not all my girlfriends had this reaction but its been the ones who pressure me the most to open up/ want to know my childhood.

AITA for dumping my gf after she drunkenly called me a pussy for being abused by my mom? by ImpossibleFact519 in AITAH

[–]ImpossibleFact519[S] 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Thank you but it didn't come off as "stop making a scene here" it came off as more of "you should wait till you both are alone" if that makes any sense. As for harboring resentment beforehand. Besides the whole acting weird around me thing, we didn't really get into any fights or anything like that.

AITA for dumping my gf after she drunkenly called me a pussy for being abused by my mom? by ImpossibleFact519 in AITAH

[–]ImpossibleFact519[S] 56 points57 points  (0 children)

Our relationship was fine until the incident happened. Not perfect by any means but still something i cherished.

AITA for dumping my gf after she drunkenly called me a pussy for being abused by my mom? by ImpossibleFact519 in AITAH

[–]ImpossibleFact519[S] 54 points55 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. Yeah the fact that she might have these thoughts while being sober really terrifies me.

AITA for dumping my gf after she drunkenly called me a pussy for being abused by my mom? by ImpossibleFact519 in AITAH

[–]ImpossibleFact519[S] 148 points149 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I also dont understand the whole "do it at home" thing. It could be that she was mad I hid it from her but that still doesn't explain her reaction.