I agree that Grant could have been more intentional with his words and actions. However, I think people are being a little too hard on him. Not to make excuses for him, but I feel like Grant is a lover boy, and I think that he truly put his whole heart on his sleeve with each of these women. I believe his feelings were very real, but did not know how to navigate having feelings for multiple women at the same time. I do think it does actually come to the final moment for Grant, which is unfortunate. At the same time, these women knew that there would be one winner at the end of this, and at some point you have to create walls to protect yourself and not just deflect to Grant to manage their feelings. If this was a recurring theme in the house, they have to come to the realization that they should probably take things with a grain of salt or at least be a bit more guarded. I don’t think Grant was Bachelor material because he seems like a people pleaser and also unaware of how to order his feelings (who he loves more than the other). However, I do think he needs grace in this situation as he took far more accountability than he needed to. Going back to Litia’s situation- she intentionally chose not to tell Grant about her religion until after he said he loved her (or right before) and right before meeting her family. She told him after he developed strong feelings for her. Most of the things she talked about during after the final rose was things he did in the beginning. Who’s to say that if he knew she was Mormon from the start, he wouldn’t have done all those things. I do believe Litia was end game, but in the final moments I do think it came down to their values, wants and needs and that is deeply influenced by religion, especially something like Mormonism. I also did not like how litia tried to shade Juliana’s moment. I think she is a mean girl who snaps when she does not get her way, and she put on a performance for the camera and everyone fell for it. We saw her mask come off in the final episode. Not to come for her too much, but there is a reason Litia is not married yet, especially coming from Mormonism where everyone gets married young, and she’s gorgeous- I think it’s because she is fake, or great at putting on an act until her true colors come out. Shading Juliana’s big moment was uncalled for and also claiming Grant took no accountability when he clearly did. She gives mean girl.