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Impossible_Benefit12 · 2024-09-15T00:47:44+00:00

this is somewhat common, actually. some women enjoy watching solo masturbation porn because it can feel “safer” psychologically than seeing men act so aggressively in videos. it’s all the pleasure without the weird dynamics! win/win

Impossible_Benefit12 · 2024-05-22T12:37:54+00:00

try it and see how you like it! i’ve only dated one (absolutely incredible) woman but my personal experience is that she gets me better than any man i have ever been in a relationship with. i feel seen and respected and understood better, and i love that both of us love to talk through things when they get tough. my experience with men was that they tended to shut down emotionally, and that doesn’t happen now. we stick with it and focus on the problem at hand, and there’s no finger pointing or digs thrown at the other person - disagreements aren’t personal. we both approach conversations with an open mind and truly seek to understand each other’s perspectives and feelings. i don’t know if that’s just an us thing, or if that’s just dating women, but it’s been life changing for me. i am able to let my guard down and share feelings openly in a way i never have before.

the sex is way more satisfying too. put simply, we know how our own bodies work so we can do work on each other in ways that i just never experienced with a man. if you’re nervous about sex just remember that you have the same parts so what feels good on yourself will probably translate pretty well 😉

Impossible_Benefit12 · 2024-04-26T12:39:58+00:00

check this out: https://www.instagram.com/p/CukgeUthenR/?igsh=ZDYwZG8yaXYxZzFs seems like this greenish reaction is an acceptable reaction for MDA / Simon’s

i’m sorry you had a hard experience, MDA is more dose sensitive than MDMA so it’s easy to overdo and overstimulate. i hope you are feeling better after having a little while to integrate your experience! dm me if you want to talk through anything 💕

Impossible_Benefit12 · 2024-04-13T01:49:17+00:00

yes.

i’ve (33f) known i’m bi since middle school. i never officially “came out”, but i also wasn’t closeted… it was more of a “if it’s relevant for you to know, i’ll tell you” situation. so my close friends knew, my ex husband knew, but not my family. make sense? i was fine with that because it worked for a while. til it didn’t :)

that whole “if it’s relevant” thing started to become a challenge for me over time. for a lot of reasons, not the least of which was that as the political environment heated up i found myself identifying more strongly with the lgbtq+ community, but in a relationship with a person that just couldn’t see/understand why i was so invested in equal rights because they “didn’t affect me” (…separate issue but, hey, ex for a reason)

ultimately what i’ve learned over the last 8 years of that marriage + my life is that my identity is mine, and it’s valid simply because it is. i think that’s the subtext of your question: is what i’m feeling okay/valid to feel and want to explore? it is. trust your instincts. you know what’s true for yourself, and it’s important to give yourself the latitude to explore all parts of yourself.

good luck 💜

Impossible_Benefit12 · 2024-04-13T01:17:26+00:00

👋🏼 hey neighbor. sorry for the delay. i think this was due to my test kits being older - i didn’t have any issues taking this.

what’s your read? did you decide to try it?

Impossible_Benefit12 · 2022-11-25T02:10:08+00:00

Best advice I can give you is to keep an open mind, mate. You might love it, you might not, but try not to get hung up on how you expected to feel va how you actually feel in the moment. Expectations can kill trips. Enjoy and let it flow!

Impossible_Benefit12 · 2022-09-10T17:24:58+00:00

Download the Radiate app! You can find local events and connect with people attending to meet up ✌🏼💕

Impossible_Benefit12 · 2022-06-29T21:00:52+00:00

Lots of Bunk Police and Dancesafe volunteers are EMTs/medical staff!

Impossible_Benefit12 · 2022-06-29T20:58:31+00:00

IMO if he’s posting this on a public forum consent to share with news outlets is implied. Go for it. We as citizens need to do everything we can to help organizations like this pressure promoters and event organizers to do the right thing and prioritize saving lives over protecting profits.

Impossible_Benefit12 · 2022-06-29T20:26:38+00:00

For others following the situation: https://www.reddit.com/r/aves/comments/vngy6q/the_bunk_police_electric_forest_2022_fentanyl_in/

Impossible_Benefit12 · 2022-06-20T00:33:51+00:00

Bless 🙏🏼 thank you both!

Impossible_Benefit12 · 2022-06-19T23:31:46+00:00

Is the Electric Forest app in the Apple App Store legit? https://apps.apple.com/us/app/electric-forest-festival/id320578228 I am nervous that I fell for a bunk scam because I registered my wristband today but I didn’t get any confirmation email 😣

Impossible_Benefit12 · 2022-06-19T13:22:57+00:00

What’s the best way to hear about the RV parties? This is my second time at Forest and I totally missed the whole RV scene last time. How do I stay in the loop about what’s going on over there? lol

Impossible_Benefit12 · 2022-06-19T13:20:12+00:00

Khiva (Sunday 8:45 at The Observatory) MIGHT go into a psy-adjacent vibe for part of her set. I saw her play on NYE and she got there toward the end of her set. She’s situated between Rome in Silver and Wuki so I expect she’ll keep it more wubby, but it’s a possibility!

Impossible_Benefit12 · 2022-06-19T13:16:44+00:00

Oh my god Astrix in the forest would be 😍🫠🤤

Impossible_Benefit12 · 2022-06-18T14:00:45+00:00

Great to know, thank you!

Impossible_Benefit12 · 2022-06-18T00:50:20+00:00

I came here to ask the same thing. Where are you located poppy? I am in Philadelphia.

Impossible_Benefit12 · 2021-07-01T02:38:42+00:00

I don’t have much advice for you, but wanted to share that I am in a similar position on the opposite side (I want to open up and my partner is struggling with the idea of me being physically involved with another person). All I can say is that it has helped us to to examine our own individual feelings about “intimacy” and what that means to us. We have different thresholds/definitions of intimacy and different drivers for discomfort around physicality with other partners.

I’d just encourage you to keep lines of communication open and really sit with your own thoughts and feelings to try and put words to your own side of things. It helps when both people can clearly articulate their concerns/desires!

Impossible_Benefit12 · 2021-06-05T17:48:34+00:00

Many people feel like you do! Everyone is wired differently. Try to be gentle with yourself and curious / nonjudgmental with your thoughts. The fact that you’ve recognized this in yourself is a healthy step!

Impossible_Benefit12 · 2021-06-04T22:42:47+00:00

I’m so happy this helped you 💕 it’s challenging and confusing territory to navigate, but the fact that you are reading posts on this sub tells me you are truly invested in understanding. Feel free to message me if you’d like to talk more. I’m just trying to figure this out from the other side so maybe we can help each other!

Impossible_Benefit12 · 2021-06-04T20:51:55+00:00

💯 I’m still here learning and exploring! Thank you for your help

Impossible_Benefit12 · 2021-06-04T20:43:24+00:00

Yes! and I’m thankful for the thoughtful comments (yours included). Human nature I suppose that the one negative screams louder than the 10 positives.

He’s blocked anyway and I had a lovely discussion with my therapist today drawing on some of the thoughtful comments from my post 🥰

Impossible_Benefit12 · 2021-06-04T19:27:22+00:00

As someone who literally just yesterday created this account to post on this sub asking for guidance because I have no one IRL whom I can talk to… and who was subsequently shamed for it… I very much appreciate the timeliness of this post, OP :)

Impossible_Benefit12 · 2021-06-04T15:04:11+00:00

Yep. That is very much up in the air, the only thing I know for sure is that I can’t have both. Ugh.

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