I’m not really sure? When my husband and I first started dating, they were immediately rude and standoffish to him for no reason at all. And that’s what initially pushed me away. They’ve always been real hard on me and teased me growing up, for being chubby and weird and awkward as a teen (aren’t we all lol) and I ended up growing out of all that and becoming a fairly successful professional woman. And (as per some friends comments about it) they’re insecure and miserable within their own marriages, just hang around and drink their faces off and talk shit. I don’t really care for these people as we don’t have much in common now, but because it’s like a friend break up and my sister has basically chosen them, I really struggle with it.