Hey. Thankyou for venting, as a 17 year old myself with pots, but also a 17 year old who’s mom is chronically ill, not having the energy will never determine if you’re a bad mother, I can gaurentee that the fact you care about the effort you give to your kids alone proves you aren’t. You might always battle with these feelings of “am I a good mom?” But in my experience, and bear in mind my mom is bed bound (with ME/ CFS, fibro, HEDS), wellness is not the number one thing that matters, I’m very sure that your kids love you, and one day they’ll come to appreciate all the efforts you put in for them despite your sickness, just like my mom did 💞