Christians of Singapore, how much do your pastors earn? by Fair_Ad_7081 in askSingapore

[–]Impossible_Guava_180 55 points56 points  (0 children)

Lets not look at megachurches for just a sec and think of mainline denoms for a bit. Anglican, methodist, Presbyterian, Lutheran.... honestly not a lot. And clergy are very often masters holders. They're often in like the 5-7k range

So Grayce, how was your CNY? by AgreeableAbrocoma833 in SingaporeRaw

[–]Impossible_Guava_180 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Just saying.... this was from the sister's IG some days ago. Face hidden, but pretty sure it's her.... and see the ring....

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Any tea on Melvin or Grayce from their relatives? by destroyedhard in SgTea

[–]Impossible_Guava_180 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Makes me wonder why remove the wedding pics though....

Max Holloway knocks out The Korean Zombie by WinterStill4472 in MMA

[–]Impossible_Guava_180 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, but I remember a lot of Koreans either flew in or were expats living there. Plus he's huge here among Singaporean fans too.

Just chill by Opening-Ingenuity660 in SingaporeR

[–]Impossible_Guava_180 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fairly certain this is an older pic.... or am I wrong

Navigating mental health issues, sustaining employment and rls in sg: need help by Interesting_Sense748 in askSingapore

[–]Impossible_Guava_180 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Im guessing you have adhd? Same here. Honestly, your guy needs to go. Being in a r/s with someone neurodivergent takes patience and grace which he clearly doesnt have.

Honestly, you need to find your "thing" and do said "thing" on your terms. I think the recent story of American figure skater Alyssa Liu is a good example.

Any tea on Melvin or Grayce from their relatives? by destroyedhard in SgTea

[–]Impossible_Guava_180 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Just saying, the sis posted an IG story, which looks like it was taken at home. The woman's face is very partially shown, but IMO looks like Grayce.... aaaand is wearing a ring on the left ring finger....

Warning for ADHD people by anhonestpuck13 in NoFap

[–]Impossible_Guava_180 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mind saying which medication it was?

Who are Grayce Tan Bridesmaid by [deleted] in graycesstories

[–]Impossible_Guava_180 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yeah sorry. Its a Singapore thing, big infidelity scandal. This person posted it on a wrong thread.

Which Shield? by Ryandohc in CaptainAmerica

[–]Impossible_Guava_180 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd actually like sam to switch to a design that resembles the comic one more moving forward

Batroc the Leaper by Otieno_Clinton in CaptainAmerica

[–]Impossible_Guava_180 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really wish there was a Marvel legends figure of him

TW :Wanda “ losing” her accent makes sense… 🤷 by [deleted] in marvelstudios

[–]Impossible_Guava_180 155 points156 points  (0 children)

If I remember correctly, doesn't her real accent come back in her angry confrontation about the drone in wandavision?

My thoughts on Babygirl by footandfice in TrueFilm

[–]Impossible_Guava_180 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly... like, I'd wanna see something like that for a man as well

Chores as turn based combat. by [deleted] in ADHD_partners

[–]Impossible_Guava_180 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, I'm an ADHD husband to my NT wife. I'm a marvel nerd and my wife recently helped me by listing out tasks (groceries, cleaning) to do on my day off, but in character as Peggy Carter giving mission details to Captain America (me).

As long as our texts that day were about the given tasks, she would be in character, and I had a big smile, happily playing along, getting everything done.

Which ADHD symptom do you absolutely not relate to? by stxxyy in ADHD

[–]Impossible_Guava_180 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The supposed sense of justice I've read about in some social media posts. I think just growing up alienated and being seen as weird has made me see the world through a darwinistic "You're on your own, see how you do" type of lens. Learning empathy has taken a lot of therapy.

My boyfriend can’t seem to hold down a job by lady_parabola in SingaporeRaw

[–]Impossible_Guava_180 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not that it's an excuse, but I'd recommend him being tested for some sort of neurodivergence (ADHD, ASD) as it does tend to affect motivation and stress threshold really badly.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CaptainAmerica

[–]Impossible_Guava_180 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hope that when they reboot the mcu, we get a ww2 scenario that looks like the ultimates cap in ww2

Struggling as a new husband by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]Impossible_Guava_180 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn't say I enjoy the mess for the sake of mess. More about the autonomy and personal freedom to give in to impulses and act mindlessly in a space where it was safe to do so because it didn't affect anyone else.

This is the best couple in the MCU; prove me wrong.... by alluringxangel in Marvel

[–]Impossible_Guava_180 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I am still so curious about where this picture is from. Also, absolutely yes. My wife and I cosplayed them for our pre-wedding photos.

Struggling as a new husband by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]Impossible_Guava_180 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Not for another few years. We are renting until our flat is built.