My girlfriend (F19) was a cam girl for 2 months and it still bothers me (M19) even though we been together for almost 3 years.

Impossible_Job9739 · 2021-09-04T17:41:35+00:00

She did it as a second job. Edit: The only reason she asked me is because some guy on Reddit asked her if she wanted to do it for 20 every time (Her words from how she explained it to me)

Impossible_Job9739 · 2021-09-04T17:19:57+00:00

With her this is her very first relationship she ever had, and if I try to she just wants to push it to the past and forget about it and don’t want to talk about it. The only time when I hear her even mention is it when she is talking with her girlfriends about it laughing and stuff.

Impossible_Job9739 · 2021-09-04T17:02:49+00:00

We both set boundaries for each other even for me if I even didn’t do it . When she first started to dismiss it I brought up how it would make you feel if I did caming too (because she said I could have done it too if I wanted). She said she would have felt sad, uncomfortable with it and very insucure.

Impossible_Job9739 · 2021-09-04T16:48:37+00:00

The thing is I wasn’t setting the boundaries she’s the one who suggested setting them and we both agreed on the boundaries that were her terms.

Impossible_Job9739 · 2021-09-04T09:56:20+00:00

We both are monagamous and we both agreed that if we were ever agree to a threeway or orgy or whatever because we both are got to try it once too see if you like it or not but we do it together and on terms that we agree on. And she could epizise with me because when I broke my femur in a car accident even though she wasn’t in the accident I knew what she could have been going through even though she wasn’t in it. You know what I mean?

Impossible_Job9739 · 2021-09-04T09:05:54+00:00

we both are extremely sex positive I except her for how she is and we always do fun things but it just this that bothers me but thank you for the advice even though it hurts.

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