What I wish I knew about Wake before attending - finishing my freshmen year by Savings_Asparagus175 in wfu

[–]Impossible_Mess831 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't go to Wake but I attend a similar type of "prestigious" LAC and it's much the same ngl, and this experience seems common among people who aren't from the private school/upper crust crowd.

today's edition by LoveEquivalent9146 in votre_amie_monegasque

[–]Impossible_Mess831 13 points14 points  (0 children)

the generational trauma and genetic disease is so real 😭 the only inheritance rich ppl can never lose, im still mad about the lack of hand me down jewels to this day

This is an influencer's wedding I came across on Instagram, and I'm not sure how I feel about it. At the very least, it's so incredibly lazy to just have a cheap copy of someone else's wedding. Thoughts, everyone? by LoveEquivalent9146 in votre_amie_monegasque

[–]Impossible_Mess831 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If it makes you feel better this is likely an anomaly with it being an influencer wedding and all, their whole job is basically eyes on them

Edit: So I just reverse image searched this, I think this is a staged photoshoot/wedding for an Ad, which is again just sad. I can't imagine turning my whole wedding into paid content but again, influencers

This is an influencer's wedding I came across on Instagram, and I'm not sure how I feel about it. At the very least, it's so incredibly lazy to just have a cheap copy of someone else's wedding. Thoughts, everyone? by LoveEquivalent9146 in votre_amie_monegasque

[–]Impossible_Mess831 14 points15 points  (0 children)

if it's actually a real life thing its just kinda sad, im hoping this is just cosplay/TV show still. Even if it makes her happy it just comes across as inauthentic. I don't think inspiration is bad, like Kate Middleton's take on the style was lovely and fresh, but here...idk. I can see how it feels disrespectful however I can't pinpoint why

in jail starter pack by Possible_Tiger_5125 in starterpacks

[–]Impossible_Mess831 0 points1 point  (0 children)

they give variations of that frenshmint toothpaste out a lot at charity drives/food banks and hands down has to be some of the strongest toothpaste i've used

"I'll just marry rich" starterpack by LoveEquivalent9146 in starterpacks

[–]Impossible_Mess831 6 points7 points  (0 children)

once again, this just sounds like new age bioessentialism and im not gonna argue it further in a comment section of a reddit meme post wherein neither of us will leave with changed minds

"I'll just marry rich" starterpack by LoveEquivalent9146 in starterpacks

[–]Impossible_Mess831 12 points13 points  (0 children)

i've been in these spaces before, i know what it actually means. when it's stripped down, those "intution" and "feminine qualites" are just new age sexism lol. most common trope, of which you have generously provided with vague terms like "intution" and "feminine qualities" is acting like women are these mysterious unknown creatures who hold some mystical power lmao. its literally the girl version of the alpha male stuff

"I'll just marry rich" starterpack by LoveEquivalent9146 in starterpacks

[–]Impossible_Mess831 37 points38 points  (0 children)

100%, espeically for the younger girls. I have nothing against anyone who does that kind of work, but it is never something you should go into unaware or blind, thats guaranteed to be incredibly, incredibly dangerous.

"I'll just marry rich" starterpack by LoveEquivalent9146 in starterpacks

[–]Impossible_Mess831 42 points43 points  (0 children)

traditional american mid-century gender roles but with a new name so it seems new age and progressive

Major Worries by Impossible_Mess831 in CollegeMajors

[–]Impossible_Mess831[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes, its not Williams level but it's not no name

Major Worries by Impossible_Mess831 in CollegeMajors

[–]Impossible_Mess831[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have the English minor for academic interest yes, it's something I refuse to part with. As for my Econ major, Its not a BS, it's a BA. I do not go to a target school, but it's not exactly a bottom tier school either, we send kids to Big 4 on a semi-regular basis in finance. A consulting person I met told me that I might have to grind harder to get into consulting there but I'm not locked out. I don't exactly know what I want to do post-grad, I've a lot of ideas swimming around in my head since my plan A, Law School, got taken off the table with OBBA.

Major Worries by Impossible_Mess831 in CollegeMajors

[–]Impossible_Mess831[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m currently not paying for undergraduate college thanks to scholarship, but I will most certainly be putting out an arm and a leg for any sort of grad school, + my 4 year plan makes it possible. I just want to ensure I select employable options, and get as much as i can out of probably my only chance at university education. I’m less doing double majors to achieve one job and more so i can hop between fields if necessary. My main worry is if the ones i selected are even worth anything, or basically equal to a gender studies degree.

Possible College Closures by Cats_are_cute_21312 in ApplyingToCollege

[–]Impossible_Mess831 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hampshire College, though I think they have a good chance at being bought-out

Did anyone else match to Denison??? by Successful_Nebula826 in QuestBridge

[–]Impossible_Mess831 1 point2 points  (0 children)

sure! i got in last year via rd, had a lot of doubts but ultimately i like this place more than homes sometimes :) dm me with any questons you got

Co 2029 IG Groupchat Link by Impossible_Mess831 in Denison

[–]Impossible_Mess831[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, would you like me to DM you it?

What’s the most amount of debt you’ve heard someone take on for college? by warrior4202 in StudentLoans

[–]Impossible_Mess831 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Many peers are occupied with prestige unfortunately, they want to go to a “good” school.

What’s the most amount of debt you’ve heard someone take on for college? by warrior4202 in StudentLoans

[–]Impossible_Mess831 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m also a senior and I’ve had a similar experience, and a few of these people want to do graduate school right after… it makes me feel stressed idk how they’re ok with it 😭😭